This episode of Feathered in Grace & Armor is packed with wisdom, humor, and real talk as Chadd & Gina welcome author, coach, and podcast host Monica Tanner. Monica joins the conversation to unpack the message behind her new book, Bad Marriage Advice, where she flips one of the most common clichés on its head: instead of “Happy wife, happy life,” she makes the case for a healthier truth — “Happy spouse, happy house.”

Monica shares how the book began as a heartfelt note to her oldest son as he prepared for marriage, and why love alone isn’t enough — marriage requires skills, intentional effort, and practice. The conversation explores how learning your partner’s love language, understanding emotional drivers like the Primal Question, and building real relationship habits can transform a marriage.

They also talk about Monica’s podcast, including her recent conversation with Gary Chapman about his new book, The Love Language That Matters Most, and how those insights apply to couples at every stage. Monica reflects on her son’s reaction to receiving a book written just for him and his bride — and she reveals what she calls the “cheat code” of marriage advice, so be sure to listen all the way to the end.

To learn more about Monica Tanner and her work, visit:
👉 https://www.monicatanner.com/

And we’ll just say this — Monica is absolutely TED Talk ready this year.

This episode is a refreshing reminder that strong marriages aren’t accidental… they’re built with intention, skill, and heart.

This episode of Feathered in Grace & Armor is truly a potluck—a little bit of everything that reflects what life looks like in our second act.

Chadd & Gina share an update on the family compound addition, including finding a builder to help bring the vision to life. Gina also opens up about being under the weather the past couple of weeks and the reminder that slowing down is sometimes part of the journey.

The heart of this episode centers around community—why surrounding yourself with people who lift you up matters so much. They talk about taking intentional steps to get more connected at church, stepping into service, and joining men’s and women’s groups at Grace Family Church. Gina also shares her excitement about becoming a co-leader in a women’s group, leaning into purpose and connection.

To top it off, they introduce a special Primal Question Valentine’s Reset for Couples—a guided Zoom experience designed to strengthen communication and connection.

💌 Cost: $49.99
📧 Register: GinaMichaelCoaching@gmail.com

🗓 Available sessions:
• Feb 14 – Morning session
• Feb 26 – 7–8 PM
• March 2 – 7–8 PM

This episode is about growth, faith, service, and doing life together—with honesty, humor, and heart.

In this honest and eye-opening episode of Feathered in Grace & Armor, Chadd & Gina dive into a topic that affects almost every relationship today—being offended. From feeling hurt by a spouse to feeling ignored when your kids don’t call, text back, or listen the way we expect, they unpack how easily offense can creep into marriages and families in today’s culture.

They also touch on the power of understanding your Primal Question, and how knowing your emotional drivers can change the way you hear—and react to—others. With authenticity and vulnerability, they talk about why hard conversations are necessary in a healthy marriage. Communicating your needs clearly is not wrong—and if someone chooses to be offended by honesty, that’s something they have to work through.

One truth they reinforce—echoing wisdom from their recent conversation with Dr. Lee—is simple but powerful:
👉 Marriages take effort. Daily, intentional effort.

This episode is raw, relatable, and a reminder that strong relationships aren’t built on avoiding conflict—but on working through it with grace, honesty, and commitment.

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🙏 If you need support, guidance, or coaching, schedule a consultation with Gina at GinaMichaelCoaching.com.

Because real love isn’t perfect—it’s intentional.

In this honest and compassionate episode of Feathered in Grace & Armor, Chadd & Gina open up about a real-life moment that stopped them in their tracks. After overhearing a long, heated argument between neighbors—centered around parenting styles, favoritism, and the strain it was putting on their kids—it sparked a deeper conversation about the real challenges of blending families.

They talk candidly about how blending can work beautifully—and how sometimes, despite best intentions, it doesn’t. Different dynamics, different parenting approaches, and unresolved wounds can create tension that runs much deeper than what’s seen on the surface. With empathy and grace, they remind listeners that there’s always more to the story.

This episode isn’t about judgment—it’s about understanding, communication, and support for families navigating complex relationships.

💬 We always encourage our listeners to engage with us on social media and share their experiences.
🙏 And if you or someone you know needs counseling or coaching support, or just a need the power of prayer, you can schedule a consultation with Gina at GinaMichaelCoaching.com.

You’re not alone—and these conversations matter.

🎙️ A Powerful Conversation on Marriage with Dr. Lee Baucom

This jam-packed episode of Feathered in Grace & Armor is a special one—Chadd & Gina are thrilled to welcome their first-ever guest: Dr. Lee Baucom, author, speaker, and nationally recognized marriage counselor. 🙌

Together, they dive into why pre-marriage counseling doesn’t always work the way couples expect—and what actually does make a marriage thrive long-term. Dr. Lee brings decades of experience and wisdom as he breaks down his three foundational keys to a successful marriage:

1️⃣ Connect – building real emotional and relational connection
2️⃣ Change – understanding that growth is required, individually and together
3️⃣ Create – intentionally creating the marriage and life you want

This episode is insightful, practical, and packed with “aha” moments whether you’re newly married, in your second act, or simply wanting to strengthen your relationship. It’s one of those conversations you’ll want to listen to more than once.

🔗 Learn more from Dr. Lee and check out his podcast at:
👉 https://savethemarriage.com/podcast/

If you care about marriage, growth, and doing relationships well, this is an episode you won’t want to miss.

🎙️ What Are You Laying Down?

In this honest and encouraging episode of Feathered in Grace & Armor, Chadd & Gina dive deep into the power of surrender—what it means to let go of what no longer serves you and trust God with what comes next. From expectations and control to old hurts and fears, nothing is off the table in this conversation.

It’s a heartfelt episode rooted in grace, freedom, and hope, and we truly believe it will meet you right where you are.

✨ If this episode speaks to you, we’d be grateful for a 5-star review on Spotify—it helps others find the show and join the conversation.
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🙏 And if you need prayer, guidance, or simply someone to walk with you, we’re here for you.

Thank you for being part of the Feathered in Grace & Armor family.

Well… it finally happened. Chadd & Gina get a little vulnerable after being discovered having a “Corporate Meeting” right before the kids and granddaughters knocked on the door. 😅 Timing is everything, right?!

This episode is light, real, and guaranteed to make you laugh—because if you’re married, chances are you’ve been there too.

👉 So we’ve gotta ask…
Do you and your spouse have a code word or catch phrase for “sexy sexy time”? 👀
Drop it in the comments or DM us—we promise, judgment-free 😂

🎧 Tune in, have a laugh, and enjoy your weekend!
And don’t go anywhere… we’ve got another great episode coming your way Monday 👊

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ChatGPT

In this reflective and challenging episode of Feathered in Grace & Armor, Gina leads the conversation with three powerful questions designed to help you step into 2026 with clarity and intention:

1️⃣ What worked well for you this past year?
2️⃣ What supplied you with fruit—abundance, joy, peace, and growth?
3️⃣ What supplied you with distraction, hurt, heartache, or anxiety?

Then comes the bonus question that invites real change… 🥁
What would happen IF you did something different?

The episode also explores how we start our days—with gratitude or with grief—and how that choice shapes our mindset, relationships, and faith. Grounded in Scripture, Gina reflects on Matthew 12:34:

This conversation is an invitation to create accountability, align your heart with your actions, and move into 2026 lighter, wiser, and more intentional.

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