Family Law Isn’t Just Legal — It’s Emotional Trauma in Disguise

In Episode 3 of Dear Divorce Diaries, Darren “Daz” Mort and Joplin “Jop” Higgins explore the emotional realities behind family law — and why separation feels like uncharted territory for most people.

They explain that many separated parents unintentionally make mistakes because they simply don’t know what to do — and then they’re judged for it in court.

This episode goes beyond legal process and dives into the human story behind family breakdowns, revealing how family lawyers often become lifelong supports for clients and children. Darren shares his personal journey — from growing up through family breakdown and financial hardship, to creating powerful films like Tommy, Millie, and the upcoming Jack & Jill. These films were born from real experiences, including Darren’s work on the Family Violence Task Force and his own childhood trauma.

Daz & Jop discuss how family law isn’t just a case, it’s a lifelong impact on children — and why having resources like films and books can help parents understand their child’s emotional world. Darren explains the inspiration behind his films, how they’re used in courts and parenting programs globally, and how they help families navigate the separation process in a child-focused way.

They also highlight the importance of support, empathy, and education, and why separation is not something most people are prepared for — yet it changes lives forever.

Key Topics Covered:

• Why separation feels like “uncharted territory”
• The emotional trauma behind family law
• How lawyers build long-term relationships with clients
• Darren’s personal story of family breakdown
• The creation of the films Tommy, Millie, and Jack & Jill
• The impact of family conflict on children
• How children interpret separation and blame themselves
• How educational tools help parents understand their child’s world
• The importance of empathy, support and community

Why This Episode Matters

Whether someone is just contemplating separation or deep into negotiations, this episode offers a grounded, compassionate look at what the process actually feels like — beyond forms and courtrooms. The blend of legal insight and emotional awareness helps listeners feel equipped, not overwhelmed, by the road ahead.

And because no two separations look the same, you can be part of the conversation.

Listeners are invited to submit their questions for Daz & Jop, with future episodes dedicated to answering real experiences, real challenges and real concerns from the people who need guidance most.

Whether you’re contemplating separation, navigating court, co-parenting, or simply trying to put your children first through the uncertainty — The Dear Divorce Diary Podcast offers steady, professional guidance to help reshape the path ahead.

Real law. Real families. Real conversations.

Subscribe, listen, learn — and know that you’re not alone.

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