Narcissistic revenge often involves mirroring the exact behaviors they are accused of—a tactic known as projection or "tit-for-tat" retaliation—to punish, control, and reassert dominance.

When a narcissist feels wronged, their ego injury transforms into intense rage, prompting them to inflict the same pain, confusion, or betrayal they feel they experienced.

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The new lock/photo from Amazon driver of gate open, fur kiddos outside of fenced area... in busy street😠👇

*Front podcast photo of new tag, ironically just ordered last night before 🤡 🎬 act.

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*Podcast error

"Executive" not Executor

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Life happens when it's supposed to...

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Embrace the present, reduce stress over future plans, and accept that timing is often outside our control.

This mindset encourages focusing on personal growth in the "now" rather than on future... long-term goals.

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I don't anticipate any apologizes.

I never anticipated any explanations.

Only because those involved.... would never dare to admit their guilt.

At least now, I have closure and rightfully so... settlement.

Out of court.

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No more Gilligan's Island/fire engine red hair!🔥Yes, even it had a day, season, rhyme and reason.

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Last years wildflowers are all finally cleaned up for the next home owner(s)... upcoming spring/summer season🍀💐

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Annulment... after 1 year.

You can ask the courts for an annulment based on fraud if a spouse misrepresented themselves.

You must provide concrete evidence (messages, documents) proving you wouldn't have married them otherwise.

😒#Facts👤

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*Podcast episode from earlier this week...

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Additional information regarding seeking citizenship in Canada... while battling chronic illness/cancer/etc👇

You can be denied Canadian permanent residency or immigration (which leads to citizenship) due to cancer if it causes "excessive demand" on Canada's health services.

*Bad enough to be told your a burden on your own family/village/familia

While having cancer is not an automatic disqualification, it may lead to refusal if treatment costs are expected to exceed a certain threshold (approx. $22,000+ a year. Or a diagnosis that poses a public health risk.

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Hair photo/continuing to embrace natural texture/no heat appliances👇

Bigboy still doing well as well can be, lots of rest, TLC❤️👇

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Seeking a mother figure, not a wife...

These men start resisting the marriage, because it begins to require a higher level of commitment that they do feel ready for... responsibility.

However... still following through with marriage, but for "mother-role" benefits.

They avoid treating their partner as a spouse, "wife" because they associate it with deep emotional exposure, that feels risky or exhausting.

The "Mothering" Dynamics that these men look for in a new partner is in order for the woman to be their life-long-cook, maid/cleaner, and personal accountant... managing their affairs/bills.

This, instead of marrying a life-time partner/wife/spouse..

There is no true equal partnership, when men marry for a mother-role.

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This second podcast episode really has to do with both... trying to find a home, while battling cancer.

I did make that mistake.

Driving by the place, I used to call... home. It still looked the same. Minus, they sadly took out the beautiful Floridan tree we planted in the front yard, years ago. Also, all the fruit trees I planted in the back of the property. Maybe... not wise to had tortured my soul, while driving by the area to pick up Snoreo's medical records.

They never did place the house up for sale. I doubt they ever will, not in this lifetime, anyways.

For the same circle of people/ now strangers. Yep, little old "poor me" (making fun of me years ago, for not being rich like all of you) did a HUGE thing and I'm darn PROUD for it!

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