Episode 59: Identity After Loss: Grieving Who We Were and Finding Hope in Who We Are in Christ with Jennie Parks and Kristin Hernandez

Losing a baby doesn't just break your heart—it can shake your sense of who you are.

In this episode, Jennie Parks and Kristin Hernandez discuss the ways miscarriage, stillbirth, and infant loss often reshape our sense of identity. Together, we reflect on the "before loss" and "after loss" versions of ourselves—the parts we miss, the growth we've seen, and the good fruit God has brought from deep sorrow. We talk honestly about the pain of change—how loss can affect our relationships, personality, confidence, and even our walk with the Lord—and how, even in all that shifting, our identity in Christ never changes.

With Scripture and personal reflection, Jennie and Kristin remind us that while grief may change aspects of who we are, it doesn't change whose we are.

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In Loving Memory

This episode of the Hope Mommies Podcast is sponsored by the Morgan Family in honor of Thomas Michael. The Morgan Family shares, "Sweet Thomas, your four months on earth were the most joyous days of our lives. We love you so much and miss you every day. We hold fast to the hope that we will see you again, because of Christ. Love, Mama, Daddy, Charlotte, and John".  If you'd like to sponsor an episode in honor of your baby or on behalf of a Hope Mom you know, visit hope mommies.org.

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With Special Thanks

This episode of the Hope Mommies Podcast is made possible by Comfort Candles. Based in the heart of Texas Hill Country, Comfort Candles has been our candle supplier for Hope Boxes for many years, bringing light and comfort to countless women in their grief. Each candle is handcrafted by Ben, their master candle maker, using a premium soy wax blend, all-cotton wicks, and the finest fragrances—resulting in a clean, long-lasting burn. With more than 40 heavenly fragrances to choose from, they also offer wax melts, fragrance sprays, travel tins, and more.

We're grateful for the care Comfort Candles pours into every product, and we're excited to share a special offer with you. Use the code HOPE20 for 20% off your order at comfortcandlecompany.com. You can also subscribe to their email list to receive 20% off as a first-time buyer.

The Hope Mommies Podcast is a ministry of Hope Mommies, a non-profit 501(c)3 organization that exists to bring bereaved families comfort, encouragement, and relational support as they continue to walk this side of eternity without their beloved son or daughter. The music used is Sparrow Song, courtesy of Katie Cobbs and Flourish Creative.