Episode 482: Dr. Robert Glover: Why Nice Guys Finish Last (And What Women Really Want Instead)

Ever wonder why the "nice guys" often finish last in love and life? What if everything we've been taught about being likable is actually sabotaging our relationships and success? In this episode of Habits and Hustle, I sit down with Dr. Robert Glover to discuss the hidden psychology behind "nice guy syndrome" – and why it's not actually nice at all. We explore how people-pleasing becomes a manipulative strategy and why women aren't attracted to overly accommodating men. We also discuss why vulnerability with other men is crucial for growth and practical strategies for becoming authentically confident instead of just "nice." Dr. Robert Glover is a licensed marriage and family therapist, bestselling author of "No More Mr. Nice Guy," and founder of men's development programs worldwide. For over 25 years, he's helped thousands of men break free from people-pleasing patterns to become integrated, authentic leaders in their relationships and careers. What We Discuss: (03:05) What defines a "nice guy" vs. someone who's genuinely nice (08:27) Why nice guys are often underachievers stuck in middle management (21:30) What women actually want vs. what nice guys think they want (32:02) How long before nice guys show their true colors (42:01) The difference between being nice and being authentic (46:09) Why successful men can still be "simps" in relationships (51:27) The dating crisis: why fewer people are in relationships (57:02) Creating positive emotional tension in relationships (1:03:17) What makes a strong, lasting relationship work (1:05:04) Practical strategies for polarizing your partner (1:13:07) The masculinity crisis and why men are isolated …and more! Thank you to our sponsors: Therasage: Head over to therasage.com and use code Be Bold for 15% off BiOptimizers: Want to try Magnesium Breakthrough? Go to https://bioptimizers.com/jennifercohen and use promo code JC10 at checkout to save 10% off your purchase. Timeline Nutrition: Get 10% off your first order at timeline.com/cohen Air Doctor: Go to airdoctorpro.com and use promo code HUSTLE for up to $300 off and a 3-year warranty on air purifiers. 99designs by Vista: 99designs.com/jen20 – click "Claim my discount" to get $20 off your first design contest. Magic Mind: Head over to www.magicmind.com/jen and use code Jen at checkout. Find more from Jen: Website: https://www.jennifercohen.com/ Instagram: @therealjencohen Books: https://www.jennifercohen.com/books Speaking: https://www.jennifercohen.com/speaking-engagement Find more from Dr. Robert Glover: Website: https://www.drglover.com/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@DrGloverOfficial