Episode 179: Listen More

In this episode, Dr. Mark French dives deeper into the psychology of listening, reflecting on how powerful it is to be truly heard—and the responsibility that comes with listening effectively. He explores how our personal biases, distractions, and assumptions can distort communication, and stresses the value of active listening, including recapping and confirming understanding to ensure clarity.

French highlights the importance of meeting people "where they are" in conversations, especially when emotions or urgency are involved. Drawing from a tragic safety incident in North Carolina, he shifts focus to organizational listening—questioning whether warning signs or complaints were previously overlooked and whether leaders truly listen to feedback from internal and external sources. He emphasizes that listening must be paired with action and closure—even if the action is simply acknowledging the concern.

The episode continues with a candid story about a minor workplace complaint (a fish oil smell) to underscore the need to validate all feedback, even if the issue doesn’t warrant major change. French reflects on the importance of closure—not just acting on feedback, but following up to ensure people feel heard and see results. He admits personal missteps in communication follow-through and discusses rebuilding trust.

Ultimately, the episode encourages leaders to view listening as a two-way commitment: hearing, understanding, taking appropriate action, and looping back to ensure closure—all while striving to improve through imperfection and empathy.