Episode 165 - Jason Lange - The Rejection That Broke Him—And the Men’s Circle That Rebuilt His Life

This episode: The Rejection That Broke Him—And the Men’s Circle That Rebuilt His Life.

Here’s what you’ll learn about:

Introduction and Purpose of the Podcast (0:00)

• Host Drew Deraney initiates the recording and thanks Jason Lange for joining the podcast.
• Drew credits Rob Wentz for introducing Jason Lange.
• He discusses the concept of life as a straight path and how external circumstances can derail it.
• Drew introduces the three types of men: those who don't notice adversity, those who see it as a barrier, and those who see it as an opportunity.

Jason Lange's Transformative Moment (23:21)

• Jason Lange shares his experience of struggling with intimacy and connection with women in his mid-20s.
• He describes a pivotal moment during a date where he was rejected, leading to a collapse in his confidence.
• Jason explains how he joined men's groups and underwent healing work, including talk therapy and a transformative experience in a men's group.
• He emphasizes the importance of taking responsibility for one's pain and the impact of this realization on his life.

The Role of Men's Groups in Personal Growth (23:40)

• Jason discusses the significance of men's groups in providing a safe space for vulnerability and healing.
• He highlights the importance of explicit agreements in men's groups to create a trusting environment.
• Jason shares how his participation in men's groups helped him navigate significant life challenges, including career changes and personal relationships.
• He explains how his experience in men's groups led him to start Evolutionary Man to help other men through similar transformations.

Evolutionary Man and Its Impact (23:53)

• Jason describes the evolution of Evolutionary Man over the past decade, starting from his personal well-being to supporting other men.
• He explains how Evolutionary Man offers mentorship, men's groups, and life retreats to help men connect and support each other.
• Jason shares his mission to ensure every man has access to deep connection and support through Evolutionary Man.
• He discusses the importance of real, in-person connections over virtual ones for men's mental health and well-being.

Jason's Personal and Professional Journey (24:08)

• Jason reflects on the personal growth he experienced through Evolutionary Man and how it influenced his professional life.
• He shares his experience of meeting his wife and the positive impact of his personal growth on his relationships.
• Jason discusses the challenges of raising a child with hearing impairment and how his men's groups provided support during this time.
• He emphasizes the importance of community and connection in overcoming personal and professional challenges.

The Importance of Vulnerability and Connection (24:25)

• Jason highlights the significance of vulnerability and connection in men's groups, particularly in creating a supportive environment.
• He explains how men's groups help men share their burdens and feel less isolated.
• Jason discusses the impact of the COVID-19 pandemic on men's mental health and the importance of maintaining connections during times of i...