Episode 164: Matthew & Joanna Raabsmith | Healing From Betrayal

In this episode, Clint Davis hosts Matthew and Joanna Raabsmith, who share their journey of healing and recovery from betrayal in their marriage. They discuss the importance of emotional regulation, the impact of betrayal trauma, and the necessity of individual work in recovery. The conversation emphasizes building trust and vulnerability through the intimacy pyramid, the role of community in recovery, and the significance of compassion and accountability in relationships. They encourage couples to seek help and remind listeners that their stories do not dictate their futures, highlighting the transformative power of recovery and faith.

Website: https://raabsmithteam.com/

Chapters

00:00 Introduction and Background 03:11 Discovery Day: The Revelation of Betrayal 05:57 The Journey of Healing and Recovery 08:54 Understanding Betrayal Trauma 11:58 The Importance of Individual Work in Recovery 15:07 Building Trust and Vulnerability 18:10 The Intimacy Pyramid: Foundations of Healthy Relationships 21:02 The Role of Community in Recovery 23:52 The Power of Shared Experiences 27:01 The Impact of Past Trauma on Relationships 29:57 The Importance of Compassion and Accountability 32:55 Encouragement for Couples in Recovery 35:54 Final Thoughts and Resources