Episode #126: Betsy by Herself on Thich Nat Hanh and Internal War Loops

In this solo episode of The Discomfort Practice, Betsy speaks directly into the current moment: politically, socially and somatically.

Recorded in February 2026, amid rising authoritarianism, surveillance and collective nervous system overload, this episode is a grounded, unsmoothed reflection on what it means to stay human, regulated and ethically awake when the world feels volatile.

Anchored by a teaching from Thích Nhất Hạnh, Betsy explores the idea of war loops: the internal patterns of fear, urgency, compliance, reactivity and self-betrayal that quietly rehearse the very dynamics we say we want to resist.

This is not a political analysis or a call to action.

It's a nervous-system-level inquiry into freedom, leadership and choice, especially for those embedded in corporate or institutional systems who find themselves asking, "But what can I actually do?"

In this episode, Betsy explores:

• What Thích Nhất Hạnh meant by "uprooting war from ourselves"

• How authoritarian dynamics are rehearsed internally through unregulated nervous systems

• The difference between response and reaction in moments of pressure

• Why smoothing, complying or "keeping things nice" is not neutrality

• How self-regulation becomes a form of ethical and political agency

• What it means to tolerate discomfort without outsourcing your values

• How leadership begins with interrupting internal war loops

Mid-episode nervous system practice:
A short, grounding regulation exercise designed to interrupt fear-based loops and restore choice before analysis or decision-making.

Closing inquiry + practice:
Betsy guides listeners through a reflective somatic inquiry:
Where is the war within me?
Exploring how internalised pressure, urgency, contempt or shutdown show up — and how to contain them without judgment.

This episode is for listeners who are paying attention, feeling the cost of that attention in their bodies, and wanting to stay clear, calm and human without turning away.

A gentle invitation after you listen:
No fixing. No forcing. Just noticing:

• Where you feel pressure to comply

• Where you override your own signals

• Where you rehearse domination, contempt or self-erasure

• Where choice becomes possible again through regulation

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