Episode 11 - Built Not Thirsty: How Real Bulls Lead with Respect (ft Tony, owner of the Midwest Bulls)

What does it take to become a trusted, in-demand bull—and a respected leader in the lifestyle? In this powerful episode, Tony, founder of Midwest Bulls and a Navy veteran with 14 years in ENM, reveals how he went from military parties to orchestrating some of the most respectful, female-centered gangbang events in the game. Guided by Siren, Brian, and Socrates, this conversation uncovers the real art of leadership, consent, and consistency in the bull space.

Tony isn’t just a bull—he’s a builder of experiences, and a reminder that true dominance is earned, not performed.

Why You Should Listen

If you're an aspiring bull looking to level up, a couple seeking trust in group play, or a woman wanting to feel safe, desired, and respected—this episode is your blueprint. Tony breaks down what separates high-value bulls from thirsty clowns, how to curate unforgettable events with class, and why vibe, respect, and consistency are the real flex.

Whether you're navigating your first party or hosting your fiftieth, this is a masterclass in ethical dominance, sexual leadership, and ENM community-building.