Ep 9: The Hidden Price of Dependence- Money, Power, and Partnership in Diplomatic Life

In diplomatic life, money often sits quietly in the background, tied up in allowances, benefits, and hard to reach systems that can leave one partner holding all the control. But financial dependency isn’t just about income; it’s about access, autonomy, and feeling empowered to make choices for yourself.

In this conversation, we explore:

• What financial dependency really looks like for diplomatic spouses
• Why transparency and shared decision-making around money matter
• How to build systems that support fairness- joint accounts, personal spending, savings, and emergency funds
• Ways to create confidence and independence around finances, even when your own income isn’t the main one

This is about awareness, equality, and reclaiming your sense of power and security in a life that often revolves around someone else’s posting.

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Anna – Instagram: @notjustaspouse | notjustaspouse.com | [e-mail]

Emma – Instagram: @thezestielife | [e-mail] | zestie.carrd.co