Ep 57: Four-Year Follow-Up with Donette Subron (Pregnancies, Losses, Motherhood & The Stories In-Between)

Donette first joined us for an interview in 2020 (Ep 13: Pregnancy & Loss in a Foreign Country). Today, she's sharing how her journey has unfolded over the past four years. This includes three pregnancies (including being pregnant with twins) and curveball after curveball with unexpected losses, medical support, invasive procedures, the birth of a preemie, and life in the NICU. I marvel at what it sometimes takes to bring these precious little ones into the world. 💖 It was inspiring to hear the layers of support Donette called on during her journey, how the last few years have shaped her, and ways that she practiced self-advocacy when working with her medical team. She shared that a previous episode I did with Tia DeShazor on Birthing in Community (Ep 41) emboldened her to speak up to have her needs met. Yess! May we continue to be a source of fire and encouragement for each other! . Some Resources We Reference: The previous podcast episode with Donette - Ep 13: Pregnancy & Loss in a Foreign Country: https://www.nataleefacey.com/podcast/episode/2fa2a72f/ep-13-pregnancy-and-loss-in-a-foreign-country The episode Donette references that inspired her to advocate for herself as a Melanated Momma - Ep 41: Birthing in Community with Tia DeShazor: https://www.nataleefacey.com/podcast/episode/1c1b2932/ep-41-birth-story-birthing-in-community-with-tia-deshazor Another episode that Donette has taken inspiration from - Ep 27: Why Do You Want to Have Children: https://www.nataleefacey.com/podcast/episode/1dcfe7ff/ep-27-why-do-you-want-to-have-children ----- More About Me: I am a Resilience Coach, Birth Doula, and Emotional Healing Guide, walking alongside women and femmes like you who've experienced womb-related loss, such as infertility, a pregnancy loss, infant loss, traumatic pregnancy or childbirth, or missed opportunity to become pregnant. I provide support in releasing grief, shame, guilt and other heavy emotions; in restoring trust in your body; and reconnecting to your sense of wholeness—whether you're working towards your next pregnancy or your personal Rebirth. I've been recognized by the Borough of Brooklyn, New York for supporting families who've experienced pregnancy and infant loss and have the honor of being a confidante, cheerleader, guide, and space-holder for beautiful beings like you across the world. I was born on the island of Jamaica, where I credit my love for nature, music, dancing, and belly laughs as medicine! This healing work for me is sacred, a soul-calling...and it truly is a gift to weave and be woven in this incredible tapestry with you. Learn more about me and my work at nataleefacey.com. And if you're feeling called, you can find me via the links below. ---- Ways That I Can Support You on Your Birthing / Rebirth Journey: Book a complimentary Clarity Call here: nataleefacey.com/contact / calendly.com/nataleefacey/20min Send me any questions or reflections you have: [e-mail] my mailing list via nataleefacey.com And let's connect on IG if we haven't already!: @thebirthwarriors How To Support This Form of Healing & Liberation: If you'd like to support the ongoing production of the podcast or support families experiencing financial hardship as they seek emotional healing sevices, please do so here. With Love, Natalee