Ep. 236 - Reviewing Entrepreneurial Success and Failures

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As the year winds down (or whenever you're listening), Robert and Kay Lee invite married entrepreneurs to pause and audit what's working—and what's quietly piling onto your calendar "just because." The danger isn't always failure… it's drift. When you never stop to evaluate, your schedule fills up, your energy gets spent on habits instead of priorities, and both marriage and business can slowly erode under nonstop momentum.

They walk through a powerful set of reflection questions designed to help you celebrate progress (not just critique problems), gain clarity on your goals, and make smarter decisions with your time. Kay Lee shares personal growth around emotional triggers and learning not to take everything personally—especially in family relationships. Robert opens up about loosening perfectionism, taking more chances, and using "small steps" to reduce overwhelm—like their decision to test a possible move to Lake Norman one step at a time instead of forcing a massive all-or-nothing decision.

The episode also highlights practical business lessons like testing demand safely (hello, waitlists) and learning to ask for what you want—whether it's closing a deal, requesting introductions, or opening doors through relationships. They wrap with meaningful experiences from the past 90 days: building local community through fun gatherings for married business owners, and serving local businesses impacted by the devastating Southern California fires—offering clarity, encouragement, and simple marketing direction when life feels foggy.

Key Takeaways

• If you don't audit your life, your calendar will audit you. Reflection helps you remove what's no longer serving you—before "busy" becomes your default.

• Celebrate small wins, not just big milestones. Most entrepreneurs can spot failures instantly—this episode helps you build balance and sanity by naming what's working.

• Small steps reduce big fear. Especially for perfectionists, progress comes easier when you create a "safe" next step instead of trying to solve everything at once.

• Test demand before you invest. A waitlist is a simple way to validate interest before you commit time, money, or a big launch.

• Ask for what you want. Whether in business, relationships, or networking—doors open faster when you stop hoping and start asking.

• Community is a strategy, not a luxury. Fun, face-to-face connection isn't optional for thriving—it's fuel for married entrepreneurs.

• Encouragement is leadership. When people are overwhelmed or recovering from loss, clarity + reassurance can be the most meaningful "next step."

Reflection Questions for Married Entrepreneurs (for you and your spouse):

1. How have I grown as a person over the past three years?

2. What are the biggest things that I've learned in the past 12 months?

3. What are 10 important things I've accomplished in the past 12 months?

4. What meaningful experiences have I had in the past 90 days?

5. How am I clearer on my goals and vision than I was 90 days ago?

6. In what ways is my life different and better than 30 days ago?

7. What important progress have I made in the past seven days?

8. What progress have I made in the past 24 hours?