Ep 22: Vulnerable and Grandiose Narcissism | The Mirror Has Two Faces

In this episode of the Personality Couch Podcast, we (licensed clinical psychologists Doc Bok and Doc Fish) delve into the complexities of pathological narcissism, exploring its various expressions, including covert, overt, grandiose, and vulnerable narcissism. We discuss how these themes of overt and covert narcissism appear in all narcissistic individuals, as do grandiose and vulnerable themes. We articulate how covert narcissism is under the surface in thoughts and fantasies, whereas overt narcissism is behavioral. We also highlight the shiny, extroverted themes of grandiose narcissism, while discussing the underlying emotional issues associated with vulnerable narcissism, including shame, anger, and moodiness. We overall emphasize the overlap between grandiose and vulnerable narcissism, detailing that both can coexist within a single individual, leading to a range of ways pathological narcissism can present.

Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Pathological Narcissism 03:26 Distinguishing Between Covert and Overt Narcissism 09:39 Exploring Grandiose and Vulnerable Narcissistic Themes 12:37 The Psyche of Grandiose Narcissism 19:54 The Psyche of Vulnerable Narcissism 30:10 Similarities Between Grandiose and Vulnerable Narcissism 33:19 Summary and Closing

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