We often talk about priorities and what truly matters beyond the demands of business, but last week, we faced a real-life test of those values.

In this episode, we recount the moment our condo fire alarm blared in the middle of the largest firestorm Southern California has ever seen. With fires raging near Malibu and just north of us in Pasadena, the air was thick with smoke and ash, triggering an immediate sense of fear: Could the fire have reached our building?

The urgency of the moment forced us to act fast. What do you grab when you might lose everything? What does that reveal about what you truly value?

Join us as we unpack this experience, reflect on how it clarified our priorities, and explore why we often cling so tightly to replaceable things. This is a powerful conversation about defining what matters most in life—and living that out every day.

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Takeaways

• Relationships are the most important aspect of life.

• In times of crisis, we realize what truly matters.

• Material possessions can be replaced, but memories cannot.

• It's essential to prioritize family and relationships over business.

• Natural disasters can have long-lasting effects on communities.

• People often want to help but may not know how.

• Preparation for disasters should include emotional readiness.

• Reflecting on what is important can lead to a more fulfilling life.

• The aftermath of disasters requires long-term support and rebuilding efforts.

• We should not wait for disaster to reassess our priorities.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction: The Importance of Relationships

02:00 Facing Natural Disasters: A Personal Experience

12:45 What Truly Matters: Prioritizing During Crisis

19:30 Long-Term Effects of Disasters on Communities

25:32 Reflection: Reassessing Priorities in Life