Ep 195: Autism Changes You, Part 2

In episode 195 of the Autism Mom Coach Podcast, host Lisa Kra (lawyer, life coach, and full-time single mom to a teen with autism) discusses the less positive ways autism parenting can change parents. She explains how advocacy, resilience, and adaptability can shift into constant battle mode, isolation, and tolerating situations that need intervention. Lisa covers chronic hypervigilance and sustained stress, how parents’ baseline for “normal” can become dangerously warped (including her experience at an inpatient autism hospital), and how this can lead to burnout or unsafe circumstances.

She urges listeners to check in with themselves, drop the “suck it up buttercup” mindset, seek support (doctor, therapy, community), and reach out to her at [e-mail] or schedule a coaching consultation at theautismmomcoach.com.

00:00 Autism Changes You (Part 2) — Episode Intro & What We’re Covering

01:25 The Hidden Cost of “Positive” Traits: When Resilience Turns Into Survival Mode

01:58 Hypervigilance: Living on High Alert and the Toll on Your Body

04:12 When Your “Normal” Gets Warped: The Frog-in-Boiling-Water Effect

07:23 Resilience vs. Enduring the Unreasonable: Knowing When It’s Too Much

10:29 Check-In Questions: Is Your Nervous System Stuck in Overdrive?

11:53 What Help Can Look Like: Doctor, Therapy, Community—and Stepping Back

13:11 You’re Not Alone: Reach Out + Coaching Invitation (Closing)