Ep 167: Do Less Be More

Ever notice how sometimes, when you have the smallest margins and the most to do in a small period of time…for some reason that seems to be exactly when the tire is flat, the dog gets out, or you start getting that tickle in the back of your throat?

It was one of those weeks for me; with two back to back speaking events separated by a red eye flight, when I got really sick, for the first time in years. I didn’t have time to prepare the way I normally would. I had to re-think what was most important and how to pull it all off in a way that honored the people who were counting on me. And what happened next surprised me. Less preparation, and more presence can be a really, really good thing.

For so many of the women I coach, we’ve been socialized to believe that we need to do more, serve more, prepare more; provide more value. But what if we’ve been over-relying on doing… at the expense of being?

What You’ll Learn in This Episode

• Why so many of us over-prepare, overwork, and over-function as a way to prove our value
• How the gender gap shows up in our belief we need to do more
• The hidden belief that “I have to do more to be enough”—and how it shows up in work, leadership, and life
• How over-preparing can actually block presence, connection, and impact
• How our capacity increases when we understand our value is our mind, our presence and whatever we bring in the moment
• How releasing pressure allows you to be more open, responsive, and powerful in the moment
• How to understand your yellow zones, and make a goal to increase your comfort with doing less
• How increasing your self-trust ripples out into every area of your life

What if your value is already inherent—because you exist?

When you start from that place, you show up more open, more grounded, more connected, more present to what’s actually happening - and ironically, that’s when your best work comes through.

You are valuable because you’re you. Not because of how much you do. Not because of how well you perform. Not because of how prepared you are. When you release the need to prove, you unlock a different kind of power and capacity.

A more grounded power. A more connected presence. A more magnetic way of moving through the world…and way more fun. So this week, experiment with doing a little less…
And being a whole lot more.

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