Ep. 130 | Earley 2016 Self-Therapy (Vol. 3)

[Summary] Jay Earley’s book, "Self-Therapy (Vol. 3): A Step-by-Step Guide to Using IFS for Eating

Issues, Procrastination, the Inner Critic,

Depression, Perfectionism, Anger,

Communication, and More” provides a step-by-step guide to applying Internal Family Systems (IFS) therapy to common psychological issues like inner criticism, depression, perfectionism, and eating disorders. The text details IFS techniques, including unblending from parts (Inner Critic, Criticized Child, Inner Defender), healing exiles, and developing healthy capacities (Ease, Aliveness, Assertiveness). It uses case studies and exercises to illustrate how to identify and work with these parts and patterns. The author also explains the Pattern System, a model for understanding the relationships between different parts within a person. Finally, it highlights the importance of building a trusting relationship with all parts, including the challenging ones, to achieve lasting change.