Ep. 009 // Roadmap: Coaching

In this episode, we walk through the “Coaching Stage” of the NextGen Roadmap—a critical and often emotional season for parents of high school sophomores and juniors.

As your child begins to move toward independence, this stage calls for a shift in your parenting approach—from director to coach. You’re no longer riding the bike for them, but you’re running alongside, offering wisdom, encouragement, and correction as needed.

🛠️ Key Concepts Covered:
✅ Taking Off the Training Wheels – Let your student experience the natural consequences of their choices while staying close enough to guide, support, and help them process.

✅ Calling Them to More – Don’t just prepare them for adult responsibilities—invite them into the joy and purpose of using their gifts for the Kingdom. Serving in church and stepping into meaningful community can make faith “stick.”

✅ Prioritizing Check-Ins – Create intentional rhythms for conversation where you listen first and ask good questions. Learn to respond with grace, not just correction, especially when your child shares something hard.

💬 Big Takeaways:

• Your reaction shapes their perception of God. How you respond to their honesty often speaks louder than your rules.
• Don’t parent for your reputation. Letting your child fail can be a gift—especially when done in a gospel-centered, grace-filled environment.
• Model the Gospel. Your humility, presence, and patience preach far more than your advice.

🔁 Memorable Quote:
“Parenting at this stage is less about control and more about influence. You’re watching and guiding while they begin to ‘do.’”

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