EP36: 'Am I the A*Hole': Judging Other People’s Drama (So You Don’t Have To)

In this episode of The Art of Classiness Podcast, we’re diving headfirst into the wonderfully messy world of the Am I The Asshole subreddit. From secret recordings that blow up weddings, to surprise houseguests who overstep big time, to navigating friendships with former flings, these stories are packed with awkward tension and moral gray areas.

We’re breaking down who crossed the line, who needs a reality check, and where boundaries and loyalty get hilariously tangled. Plus: is it ever okay to keep a secret from your partner if it’s “for their own good”? Or to prioritize your friend’s comfort over someone’s privacy? We’ve got opinions.

Listen along as we play judge and jury with plenty of laughs and just a touch of side-eye. And let us know: who do you think was actually in the wrong?

Connect with us on Instagram and TikTok: @artofclassiness Submit your own stories for future episodes! AITA for recording my friend's fiance at her bachelorette party and playing the recording for him?

AITA for sending my friends home after bringing their kids after I asked them not to

AITH for being friends with someone I slept with in the past?

AITA for not telling my boyfriend about a surprise birthday dinner his mom is planning, even though he hates surprises (and we just fought about hiding things)?

Quick disclaimer, friends — we're not doctors, just two people who love to share ideas and experiences. This podcast is for fun and informational purposes only. It's not meant to replace professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. If you have questions about your health, definitely reach out to your doctor or a qualified health professional. Take care of yourselves and use what feels right for you!