EP254: Let the Feelings Flow & Let Go

When was the last time you really allowed yourself to feel everything without judgment, distraction, or the pressure to move on to the next thing? In this episode, I open up about the emotional purpose behind my upcoming cross-country road trip. After a whirlwind few years filled with surgery, loss, milestones, and transformation, I realized I hadn’t fully processed so much of what I’d been carrying. This trip is my way of slowing down, reconnecting with nature, and making space to feel all the feelings I’ve had to put on hold. From chance encounters to meditation messages, the universe keeps nudging me toward this deeper intention, and I’m listening. If you’ve been powering through without taking time to truly check in with your heart, this episode invites you to reflect, release, and reconnect with yourself. Let’s explore what it means to feel our feels and move forward from a more grounded and present place in today’s Wise Walk. Are there moments over the past several years where you've been too busy to fully feel your emotions; the good, the challenging and everything in between? Have you ever acknowledged your feelings but skipped the part where you truly unpack, accept, and allow them to move through you? Are you taking time now to honor how far you’ve come and the full range of emotions you’ve experienced along the way? Are messages surfacing in your life through people or patterns that feel like gentle nudges from the universe? What would it look like to carve out time to drop into your heart and feel what those messages mean for you? How can you support yourself emotionally so you can move forward as your highest and best self? If you’re not seeing clear messages, can you get curious about what themes are showing up in your life right now? What do you feel called to notice, feel, or act on from what’s rising up within you? Can you slow down, minimize distractions, and give yourself space to fully feel your feels? As you tune in, can you name what you’re feeling so you can release it, understand it, and move through it with clarity? What might change in your life if you stopped letting your emotions “own you,” and instead you owned them with awareness and compassion? I’d love to hear what feelings are surfacing for you right now. How are you planning to slow down, check your reality, and express those emotions in ways that truly serve you? I’m also looking forward to our chat on next Thursday’s Wise Walk. In this episode: [04:55] I had already been thinking about this intention of the road trip being a healing journey to feel my feels, to get back to writing. [06:12] During this morning's yoga class, the meditation I read from Melody Beattie's Journey to the Heart was all about allowing our feelings to surface. [07:09] People in class needed to hear this message, and it inspired this episode. [08:03] I made a new friend in the line at UPS. His catch phrase was "feel it". [10:51] Talking to my new friend about his future podcast made me think of my own podcast and its origins. I started it five years ago. It's funny how it has evolved. [11:29] The Wise Walk intention is so powerful, because it's all about slowing down, dropping into our heart, and checking our reality. [12:37] On this trip I'm going to have drive time. There will be music, audiobooks, conversations with friends, and quiet time for reflection. I'll be present for the ride. [14:28] Whatever you feel, it is okay. We need to feel our feelings, because they communicate to us. We need to pay attention. Memorable Quotes: “There's just so much richness in how we can move forward if we pay attention to what our heart is saying.” - Mary Tess“This road trip represents an opportunity for me to heal, feel my feels, and then let that creativity flow through my writing, which is really important to me.” - Mary Tess“Part of what I need to do is allow whatever feelings to come up and to honor them, to accept them, and to name them.” - Mary Tess Links and Resources: Mary Tess Rooney Email Facebook | LinkedIn | Twitter | Instagram Heart Value