EP 231: Boys on Sex, Love & Being ‘A Man’: What They Never Say Out Loud

What do boys really think about sex, love, and what it means to be “a man”? In this raw conversation, we unpack the hidden rules shaping young men’s desires, fears, and silent struggles — from money obsessions to why they reject affection. If you want to understand the truth boys never say out loud, this episode will change how you see masculinity forever.

Nathaniel Cole is a writer, researcher and workshop facilitator working across masculinity, mental wellbeing, relationships & sex education, as well as the co-founder of the community swimming group, Swim Dem Crew. Bio (for introduction): Nathaniel Cole is a writer, researcher and workshop facilitator working across masculinity, mental wellbeing, relationships & sex education, as well as the co-founder of the community swimming group, Swim Dem Crew. He has been working in the ending male violence industry for nine years, cutting his teeth in classrooms across the country, before joining both Everyones Invited, the sexual violence education charity and S.M.I.LE.-ing Boys C.I.C., a mental wellbeing initiative, as a Lead Facilitator. He also is piloting a programme for young, marginalised men to better understand their identity and how that impacts their views on relationships and sex. His work brings people together in unlikely settings and challenges their views on a variety of topics.

KEY TOPICS:

⭐ Navigating Masculinity Through Facilitation

⭐ Discovering Safe Male Spaces As A Way To Grow

⭐ The Work With Young People In Schools - Facts & Observations

⭐ It’s All About Respect - The World Through The Eyes Of Youngsters

⭐ Observing Shifts In Youth Role Models

⭐ Gravitating Toward Performative Masculinity

⭐ Interrogating Beliefs About Touch And Intimacy In Boys

⭐ Building Emotional Literacy In Boys

⭐ Encouraging Non-Verbal Forms Of Expression

⭐ Reframing Power As Internal Strength

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