EP 217 // When Life Feels Heavy, Simplicity Becomes a Lifeline

Hey friend. I’m so glad you’re here with me today. If you’re listening to this, chances are life has been feeling a little… full. Not bad. Not wrong. Just full. Between work, kids, school, meals, and all the little decisions you make from the second your feet hit the floor, it’s no wonder your heart is craving rest. I’m just sitting here in our -20 degree weather batching some episodes as our next few weeks we are going to be enjoying all the family and Grandkids. Good day to stay inside! Today I want to talk about something that has changed my life and has changed the lives of thousands of busy moms I’ve walked with…Simplicity. Not the Pinterest kind. Not the everything-is-perfect kind. But the kind that actually makes your life easier. The kind that brings peace back into your home. The kind that reconnects you with the moments that matter most. Most moms don’t realize this, but complexity steals our joy one tiny decision at a time. Every extra step. Every scattered routine. Every night you walk into the kitchen wondering what on earth to cook, it all chips away at your energy. And the truth is your exhaustion isn’t a character flaw.It’s not because you should be doing better. You're tired because your life is overcrowded. Simplicity pulls back the layers so you can breathe again. And Scripture tells us that God is not a God of confusion, but of peace. When your life feels chaotic, it doesn’t mean you’ve failed, it means something needs to be simplified. When moms hear the word simplify, they think they need to add something like more organization, more color-coded systems, more complicated meal plans. But true simplicity is about removing what drains you. It’s choosing fewer decisions instead of more. It’s creating small repeatable rhythms so your brain doesn’t have to work so hard. It’s letting meals become easier by cooking once and eating all week. It’s allowing grocery day to be simple by keeping the same staples on hand. It’s trusting that less really is enough. When you take away the noise, you uncover a life that was already waiting for you - slower, calmer, more intentional. Simplicity doesn’t just change your to-do list. It changes you. Your evenings feel peaceful instead of rushed. • Your kids get a more present, less frazzled version of you. • You start saving money because you’re not grabbing takeout out of panic. • You stop living in survival mode and start living on purpose. • You begin to feel like you have your life back, even while working full-time. So many moms tell me, I didn’t know it could feel this easy. But it can. And it starts with small shifts, often one simple system at a time. I didn’t start out living simply, I learned it because I had to. As a nurse, I worked long shifts. I came home exhausted, hungry, and feeling like I had nothing left to give. I didn’t want fast food to raise my kids, and I didn’t want stress to define our home. So I started building small systems. Batch cooking. Simple routines. Staples I always kept on hand. Healthy meals that took minutes, not hours and an automated online business. And friend… that changed everything. It gave me margin. It gave me peace. It gave me time with my family that I didn’t have before. And that’s why I teach it now because I know what it feels like to carry more than you were ever meant to hold. If you’re listening and thinking, I want this… but I don’t know where to start, hear this: You don’t have to overhaul your life. You don’t need a planner full of color-coded tabs. You don’t need a new personality. You just need one simple step. One small shift that lightens your load. And this January, I’m leading a FREE No Spend Challenge that will help you reset your budget, simplify your daily decisions, and start the year with intention, not stress & overwhelm.It’s designed for the busy mom who feels like she’s drowning in expenses, rushing through evenings, and wishing life could slow down. And it’s completely free. Link for NO SPEND CHALLENGE -> https://stan.store/ClaimingSimplicity You can join at the link below, and each week I’ll walk with you through small, simple changes that make a big difference in your spending. Friend, simplicity isn’t about doing less so you can be more productive. Simplicity is about making room for what truly matters. It’s about creating space for joy, presence, peace, and purpose. You deserve a life that feels lighter. You deserve systems that support you. And you deserve to live in a home where stress doesn’t get the final say. I’m cheering for you, and I’m grateful we get to walk this journey together. Happy New Year Friend! Monica