EP 101: When “Pushing Through” Is Destroying Your Work-Life Balance (& How to Slow Down With Purpose)

Your work-life balance isn't about doing less—it's about doing what matters most. But when "pushing through" becomes your default, when slowing down feels risky, and when guilt takes over, then burnout isn't far behind.

In this episode, I'm sharing why slowing down with purpose is the most strategic move you can make as an ambitious mom. I'll walk you through the 4 C's that rest creates—Calm, Creativity, Clarity, and Connection—and show you how intentional rest protects your long-term goals instead of derailing them.

This isn't about quitting or falling behind. It's about giving yourself permission to pause so you can show up as your best self—for your family, your work, and yourself.

What You'll Learn in This Episode:

• Why slowing down isn't risky for your goals
• How to know when to change the pace of your work
• The cultural expectations fuel guilt about rest—and why that guilt isn't based in reality
• How to slow down or plan an intentional rest in a way that fuels productivity and growth
• The 4C’s of rest

If you're ready to build a life with both ambition and breathing room, this episode will show you exactly where to start.

Episode Highlights

• (0:00): Teaser
• (2:39): 🌟 Listener Review 🌟
• (3:32): Why pushing through backfires
• (14:38): Where guilt about pausing work really comes from
• (22:10): How to slow down with purpose and during a busy season and what this means for your long-term goals
• (28:23): The 4 C's of rest
• (32:05): Recap

Resources Mentioned:

🎧 Minimum viable day: (Jump to 14:27) EP 19: 4 Work‑Life Balance Rules for Ambitious Moms Who Refuse to Choose Between Goals and Family Time

🎧 Information management system: EP 64: 3 Systems to Turn Cluttered Notes into Productive Learning & Decision Making

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