E3 Not Losing Yourself

n this heartfelt episode, Michael and Tammy Sirmon open up about the challenge of holding on to your identity through the shifting seasons of life. From Tammy’s honest reflections on losing herself as a young wife and mother, to their new adventure of transforming an old library in Poteau, Oklahoma into a vibrant community space, the conversation blends real-life experiences with timeless lessons.

They share stories of sacrifice, resilience, and the importance of rediscovering joy, even in the midst of constant demands. Along the way, Tammy offers encouragement for women navigating identity struggles, while Michael reflects on purpose and calling as a podcaster and author. Together, they explore how men and women often process identity differently, and why it’s vital to pause, take inventory, and reclaim your “joy spots.”

This episode is an invitation to give yourself grace, set boundaries that protect what matters most, and remember—you don’t have to lose yourself to love and serve others well.