Do You Speak Russian?

Communication is the foundation of every relationship, and its absence can leave a void that feels unbearable. What if the sudden upswing of adult children cutting all contact boils down to one simple fact? We are speaking a different language! Episode one we discuss how HUGE this one word can be for an entire family.

• Adult child estrangement can be simplified to facts.
• Understanding the language of estrangement is crucial for parents.
• Gray rock is a communication strategy used by estranged adult children.
• Civil contact is polite but distant interaction during family gatherings.
• Low contact is a phase where adult children prepare for potential no contact.
• No contact is often a permanent decision made by adult children.
• Parents may not be aware of the support systems their adult children have built.
• Acceptance and personal growth are essential for parents dealing with estrangement. You can love your children from afar and still care deeply.
• Self-reflection is crucial for understanding estrangement.
• Community support is essential for parents dealing with estrangement.
• Third parties often play a role in the estrangement process.
• Finding peace in estrangement requires emotional detachment and self-care.

Chapters

00:00Understanding Adult Child Estrangement

07:00Levels of Estrangement

15:27Navigating Gray Rock

23:28Civil Contact and Low Contact

27:08The Reality of No Contact

29:31Emotional Reflections on Parenting and Estrangement

32:28Understanding Acceptance in Estrangement

35:23The Impact of Parenting Styles on Estrangement

39:47The Role of Third Parties in Estrangement

44:57Breaking the Cycle of Generational Trauma

49:44The No Contact Movement Explained

52:04Navigating the Complexities of Estrangement

56:24Finding Peace in Estrangement