Divorce-Proofing Your Marriage: What We’ve Learned, What We’ve Lived, and Why We’re Grateful for Each Other

In this episode, we sit down and share some of the most real, honest pieces of our marriage journey. From being 22 and 23 when we got married to learning each other through raising kids, evolving as people, growing up together, and building a relationship that works because they choose to work on it, not because it’s perfect.

We talk about:

• Why you can’t expect your spouse to meet every need

• How they learned to pick their battles

• Why “teamwork over scorekeeping” changed everything

• Sex, connection, and trust

• Communication inside and outside the bedroom

• Evolving as individuals and as a couple

• Why ignoring problems never makes them disappear

• When divorce becomes a real conversation — and when it doesn’t

• How small acts of effort anchor a marriage

A strong marriage isn’t about perfection. It’s about choosing each other again and again, being honest about what you need, putting in the effort, and remembering why you’re grateful for the person you get to share your life with.