In this final episode of Divorce 101 A to Z from the Divorce Happens podcast, Olivia Howell explores zero-sum thinking, a mindset that frames divorce as a win-lose battle instead of a restructuring of life and family systems. Brought to you by the letter Z and the number 0, this episode explains why divorce does not need a scoreboard — and how releasing zero-sum beliefs can reduce conflict, guilt, and emotional exhaustion.

Listeners learn how zero-sum thinking shows up in negotiations, parenting decisions, and financial discussions, and how shifting away from this mindset supports healthier outcomes for adults and children alike. Olivia also offers a grounding reflection to help listeners identify and release one belief that keeps them stuck in a win-lose framework.

This episode is ideal for anyone navigating divorce, co-parenting, mediation, or emotional healing after separation.

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In this Divorce 101 A to Z episode of Divorce Happens, Olivia Howell explains your best interest standard, the legal principle courts use when making custody and parenting decisions in divorce cases. Brought to you by the letter Y and the number 3, this episode breaks down the three core areas judges evaluate: a child’s needs, safety, and stability.

Listeners learn what the best interest standard means, what it does not mean, and how aligning decisions with a child’s wellbeing supports stronger outcomes in custody and parenting plans. Olivia also offers a grounding reflection to help parents identify the three most important needs their child has right now.

This episode is ideal for divorcing parents, co-parents, family law professionals, and anyone supporting children through divorce.

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In this Divorce 101 A to Z episode of Divorce Happens, Olivia Howell explains the meaning of ex parte, a critical legal concept used in emergency or safety-related situations during divorce or custody cases. Brought to you by the letter X and the number 1, this episode explores how ex parte requests work, why they are used when immediate protection is required, and what happens after an ex parte order is granted.

Listeners learn the difference between temporary and long-term orders, the types of situations where ex parte actions are appropriate, and the emotional experience of navigating an emergency legal process. Olivia also shares a grounding reflection to help listeners identify one safety-related question they may need clarity on.

This episode is ideal for anyone navigating domestic violence, emergency custody concerns, or sudden financial risks — as well as anyone who wants to understand how courts handle urgent matters in divorce.

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