In this episode of Divorce Happens, host Olivia Howell sits down with Rose Pulver, owner of The Thoughtful Home Maryland, to explore the emotional side of organizing during a divorce. Together, they discuss why creating a peaceful home environment is a crucial step toward healing and rebuilding, and how the physical act of decluttering can bring a sense of emotional relief.

Rose shares her insights on managing the overwhelming attachment many people feel toward belongings during a transition. She emphasizes that it’s okay to take your time with the purging process and reminds listeners that professional organizers can work with a variety of budgets and needs. With self-compassion and intentional systems, the path to a calmer, lighter home becomes much more achievable.

Throughout the conversation, Rose offers practical tips for creating manageable routines, storing sentimental items without cluttering your space, and reducing mental friction during a stressful season. Whether you’re mid-divorce or simply craving a reset, this episode will leave you feeling seen, supported, and inspired to take small, sustainable steps forward.

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Divorce Happens: Interview with Rose Pulver

Olivia Howell: Welcome back to Divorce Happens, the podcast where we support you before, during, and after divorce with education, inspiration, and a little bit of laughter. Because as we know, divorce happens and then you start fresh. Today, we're here with one of our Fresh Starts experts, Rose Pulver, to talk about a topic that often gets overlooked in divorce: the purging and healing process. It's something that’s truly entrenched in every corner of the divorce journey. So, Rose, can you introduce yourself and tell us what you do?

Rose Pulver: Well, first of all, thank you for having me. I'm so excited to be here and chat with you today. My name is Rose Pulver. I’m the owner of The Thoughtful Home Maryland. We are a professional organizing company, and we specialize in helping busy families, professionals, and people going through life transitions elevate their lives through premium organizing services. We come in and help them organize their spaces—whether it's a small project or a complete overhaul—with the goal of helping them find peace and functionality in their homes.

Olivia Howell: I love that. We sometimes forget that our home is our safe space, and it’s important for it to feel good. And organized for one person might not look the same for someone else. I’d love for you to touch on that because I think there’s a bit of a stigma that hiring an organizer is only for wealthy people, but it seems like most organizers work with everyone. Is that true?

Rose Pulver: Yes, absolutely! There is an organizer for every budget and every situation. Most organizers are happy to work with you if you share your budget and your needs. It’s very much like hiring a personal trainer—you get better results with accountability and guidance. I think it's such a worthwhile investment in yourself and your space.

Olivia Howell: That’s a perfect comparison! Now, I want to jump into our main topic today. When you go through a...

In this powerful episode of Divorce Happens, Olivia Howell sits down with Amy Slate, also known as the Breakup Broker—a real estate agent who specializes in guiding women through the emotional and logistical challenges of selling a home during divorce. With years of experience and a deep understanding of the divorce journey, Amy offers compassionate, practical advice for making smart real estate decisions during one of life’s most stressful transitions.

Amy and Olivia discuss why choosing the right realtor is crucial when emotions are high and timelines are tight. From helping clients get on the same page to navigating the nitty-gritty of paperwork and negotiations, Amy explains how having professional support makes a huge difference in the outcome—both financially and emotionally. She shares tips on preparing a home for sale, creating realistic expectations, and the importance of slowing down and taking things one step at a time.

Whether you’re in the thick of your divorce or just beginning to consider what comes next, this episode will leave you feeling seen, supported, and informed. Amy’s blend of empathy and expertise is a must-hear for anyone facing the tough decision of selling a shared home. Grab a cup of coffee and tune in—you’re not alone, and there’s a clear path forward.

Learn more about Amy Slate here: https://www.freshstartsregistry.com/resourceguide/the-breakup-broker

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Olivia Howell:

Let’s jump in. Welcome back to Divorce Happens, the podcast where we support you before, during, and after divorce—with education, inspiration, and a little bit of laughter. Because divorce happens… and then you start fresh.

Today, I’m so excited to introduce one of our Fresh Starts experts with quite possibly the best business name ever: Amy Slate, also known as The Breakup Broker. Amy, can you tell us what you do?

Amy Slate:

Sure! I’m a real estate agent licensed in both Massachusetts and Florida. I work with all kinds of clients, but my focus is helping women who are going through divorce, separation, or breakups. I guide them through the complexities of selling a home during this major life transition.

Olivia Howell:

I love that so much. Every day I meet with people going through divorce, and two questions come up again and again: custody and what to do with the marital home. Our mission at Fresh Starts is to reduce anxiety where we can—and real estate is a huge part of that.

So, Amy, what’s the process? If someone owns a home with their soon-to-be ex, how do they decide to sell, choose a realtor, and actually go through with the sale?

Amy Slate:

Great question. First, take a step back and look at your situation holistically—from financial, emotional, and logistical perspectives. These all impact the decision to sell. Having someone like me to talk things through can really reduce anxiety. Divorce is overwhelming, and adding a home sale on top of it is a lot. That’s why it’s crucial to find a real estate expert who understands divorce and can walk you through the options.

Olivia Howell:

Totally. And it’s not like there’s one central place to find all the answers—everything is so case-specific, from mortgage terms to

Divorce is often a turning point—not just in relationships, but in careers and financial independence. In this episode of Divorce Happens, Olivia Howell sits down with Melissa Cossette, founder and CEO of Max Event, to talk about how women can take control of their futures by starting a business in the event industry. Whether you're looking for a career pivot, a flexible work-life balance, or a passion-driven income stream, Melissa shares how her Business Builder Program helps women turn their love for event planning into a thriving business.

Melissa breaks down why so many women, especially single moms, feel stuck in unfulfilling jobs and how entrepreneurship can offer a fresh start. She dives into the confidence-building process, the biggest mistakes new business owners make, and how her program provides hands-on coaching, expert guidance, and step-by-step business support. With a strong emphasis on mindset, overcoming imposter syndrome, and pricing your services with confidence, this conversation is a must-listen for anyone thinking about starting their own business after divorce.

If you’ve been feeling "not ready" to take the leap, Melissa shares why there's never a perfect time—but now is always the right time to invest in yourself. Whether you’ve been planning every party for friends and family for years or you’re simply looking for a career shift that brings joy and financial independence, this episode is packed with motivation, actionable advice, and real talk about what it takes to build a business.

Learn more about Melissa here: https://www.freshstartsregistry.com/resourceguide/maxevent

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