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The holidays can make weight loss feel ten times harder. Judgment from other people, constant food noise, baking traditions, grief, and pressure to “just eat because it’s Christmas” all tend to show up at once.

In this Weight Loss Wednesday, I’m answering real listener questions pulled from the vault that are just as relevant now as when they were first asked. This episode is about staying grounded through the holidays, setting quiet boundaries, and continuing forward without sabotaging yourself.

In this video, I talk about:

• Being judged no matter what you eat and why you cannot win with everyone
• Why your weight loss is for you, not for relatives with opinions
• Feeling discouraged this time of year and why food becomes emotional support
• How to cope with low moods without turning food into the only answer
• How to spot higher calorie foods when you cannot ask what is in everything
• Holiday baking traditions and how to enjoy them without overdoing it
• Why giving baked goods away can save both your progress and your sanity
• Handling jealousy when someone close to you is losing weight faster
• Weight loss medications, comparison, and staying in your own lane
• Why slower weight loss often wins in the long run
• Navigating the first holidays after losing someone you love
• Creating new traditions while honoring the people who are gone
• Avoiding hurt feelings without sacrificing your goals
• Why saying less usually works better than explaining yourself
• Dealing with family members who pressure you to “just eat”
• What food noise really is and why it does not mean you are failing
• Recognizing your wins even when food noise is loud

This episode is about protecting both your progress and your mental health during the holidays. You do not need to be perfect. You just need to keep going.

If you have a question you would like answered in a future Weight Loss Wednesday, you can reach out through my website or on social media.

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In this episode I dive into part two of my holiday survival series. This stretch between Thanksgiving and New Year’s can feel chaotic, emotional, and full of food that pushes every button you’ve got. So I’m sharing the tools, mindset shifts, and strategies that actually help you stay grounded instead of getting swept into the holiday eating vortex.

I talk about the power of incentives and why giving yourself small rewards is not cheating. It’s strategy. Whether it is a long soak in the tub or a quiet movie alone, those incentives can carry you through stressful family dinners or long holiday events.

You’ll hear me break down one of my biggest safety nets too. No grazing. No walking and chewing. No standing at the fridge door while grabbing bites. Getting food on a plate and being present with what you are eating is one of the best ways to stay satisfied and in control.

I also walk you through navigating holiday triggers, from difficult relatives to happy memories to grief that sneaks up out of nowhere. I share how I am preparing for my first Christmas without my grandmother and how planning ahead makes a huge difference.

Then we get into the mindset traps. The “I’ll start after Christmas” trap. The “this is my last holiday before I get serious” trap. The “I already messed up so I might as well quit” trap. I help you see those patterns clearly so you can stop falling into them.

Before wrapping up, I offer two tools you can use if the holiday week feels like a true emergency. Weekly calorie spacing, which I don’t normally recommend but explain safely if you choose to use it, and going to maintenance calories for the week between Christmas and New Year’s so you can enjoy the season without losing control.

This episode is all about empowerment, calm, and clarity. You don’t have to dread the holidays or feel like you’re walking into a trap. You can enjoy Christmas, enjoy the people you love, and come out of it proud of the choices you made.

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Looking for help on your weight loss journey? I’ve created a couple of resources:
• My NEW Membership Community Flamingo Forum! Join HERE: https://charlotte-skanes.mykajabi.com/disruptor-our-community
• My Immersive Weight Loss Experience: Sustainable 7
• My Cookbook 'Disruptor'
• Free Guide ‘Getting Started for the Last Time’
• Weight Loss Workbook Disruptor, find anywhere in the world on Amazon by searching “Disruptor Charlotte Skanes”
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In this Weight Loss Wednesday, I’m bringing back something I didn’t think I’d be doing again: a holiday Ask Whatever. I found a bunch of your holiday questions, so we’re doing a full festive Q&A.

In this episode, I talk about:

• How to track holiday meals when you can’t measure anything

• Alcohol over the holidays

• What I eat at Christmas and how I handle holiday food

• Managing cravings and feeling like you can’t stop eating

• Tips for night shift eating

• How to stay motivated when you go home for the holidays

• Handling people who comment on your weight

• What to do when you don’t know the calories in holiday food

• Should you eat before a holiday party

• Advice for staying in maintenance during the holidays

I’ll be back next week with even more holiday questions. Keep trying, keep tracking, and don’t give up. You’ve totally got this.

Looking for help on your weight loss journey? I’ve created a couple of resources:
• My NEW Membership Community Flamingo Forum! Join HERE: https://charlotte-skanes.mykajabi.com/disruptor-our-community
• My Immersive Weight Loss Experience: Sustainable 7
• My Cookbook 'Disruptor'
• Free Guide ‘Getting Started for the Last Time’
• Weight Loss Workbook Disruptor, find anywhere in the world on Amazon by searching “Disruptor Charlotte Skanes”
•Get Started For The Last Time LIVE Webinar Replay Sign-Up - free Spread Sprinkle Pour worksheets

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