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Self-affirmation has become a buzzword in this day and age, but its power isn’t debatable. When you are consistently affirming yourself, words from others won’t affect you as much. We talk about that in this episode of Dem Bois Podcast. Today I sit down with Monroe, a model, author, and influencer, and we discuss challenges of name changes, gender expression, and the evolving landscape of social media. Monroe also shares his journey of self-discovery, including his transition, the importance of self-care, and the significance of visibility in the trans community.

We talk:

05:07 The importance of self-care during transition

15:13 Understanding gender expression

24:38 The power of digital reach

31:36 Mental health and social media

42:16 Creating for the community

Episode References:

Beyond the Veil Tarot

Read more about Monroe in his bio below:

Monroe Banuelos is a transgender man, best known for his influence on Instagram and TikTok. Aside from that, Monroe is also known for modeling, his ebook for trans men, and his clothing brand 'Lucky Ba$tard'.

• Instagram.com/monroe.banuelos
• TikTok.com/monroe.banuelos

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Introducing a groundbreaking collaboration crafted by Emilio Perdomo (featured on episode 37). This isn't just merch--it's a movement! We're empowering trans men of color with creative freedom to design their interpretation of Visibility = Possibility™. Think of it like major brands collaborating with athletes, but this time, our community takes center stage. Every purchase supports our vital programs!

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In this episode of Dem Bois Podcast, I get the chance to sit down with someone who is just starting out on their gender journey, Tommy Colby McCray. Tommy is a serial writer and uses writing as a therapeutic outlet for stabilizing their mental health. They share their journey of self-discovery, navigating gender dysphoria, and the complexities of choosing a name that resonates with their identity. We also discuss family dynamics, personal loss, and the impact of these experiences on mental health.

Please note: Tommy changed his name after this recording.

We talk:

10:01 Navigating gender identity and name selection

19:58 Family dynamics and personal loss

29:51 Creative aspirations and Tommy’s writing process

40:06 Finding community and support

50:53 Reflections on loss and regret

Episode References:

The Aggressives

Read more about Tommy in his bio below:

I am just learning myself as not only a serial tv writer but as a person who's just been diagnosed with gender dysphoria

• Twitter @xander_gabriel7
• IG: @theoshilohmccray
• Email: gabriellemccray91@gmail.com

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The Visibility = Possibility™️ Merch is here!

Introducing a groundbreaking collaboration crafted by Emilio Perdomo (featured on episode 37). This isn't just merch--it's a movement! We're empowering trans men of color with creative freedom to design their interpretation of Visibility = Possibility™. Think of it like major brands collaborating with athletes, but this time, our community takes center stage. Every purchase supports our vital programs!

Craving more Connection? Dem Bois Community Voices Facebook Group is a safe, moderated sanctuary where trans men of color can connect authentically, discuss podcast episodes, share powerful experiences, and build support networks.

Dem Bois YouTube Channel! - @demboisinc

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Many people have a bad relationship with money. There is shame and guilt surrounding income and spending, and we don’t talk about it enough. So, in this episode of Dem Bois Podcast, we share some advice from financial coach Leo Aquino. Leo discusses their journey of self-discovery, the importance of financial literacy, especially within the queer and trans community, and the founding of Queer and Trans Wealth, an organization that provides financial coaching and education focused on the needs of queer & trans communities across the US.

We talk:

08:24 Understanding Leo’s non-binary identity

20:15 The birth of Queer and Trans Wealth

31:02 Practical advice for managing debt

41:42 The Pay It Forward Fund

49:15 Building financial literacy for future generations

Episode References:

The Pay It Forward Fund

Read more about Leo in their bio below:

Leo Aquino is a financial coach, multidisciplinary artist, and award-winning journalist. Leo is the founder of Queer & Trans Wealth, an organization that provides financial coaching and education focused on the needs of queer & trans communities across the US.

• IG: @queerandtranswealth
• www.queerandtranswealth.org

Donate today to support Transmasc Gender Affirming Grants and Community Wellness Packages for Trans Men of Color!

The Visibility = Possibility™️ Merch is here!

Introducing a groundbreaking collaboration crafted by Emilio Perdomo (featured on episode 37). This isn't just merch--it's a movement! We're empowering trans men of color with creative freedom to design their interpretation of Visibility = Possibility™. Think of it like major brands collaborating with athletes, but this time, our community takes center stage. Every purchase supports our vital programs!

Craving more Connection? Dem Bois Community Voices Facebook Group is a safe, moderated sanctuary where trans men of color can connect authentically, discuss podcast episodes, share powerful experiences, and build support networks.

Dem Bois YouTube Channel! - @demboisinc

Exclusive content you won't find anywhere else: Behind-the-scenes magic, engaging YouTube shorts, and insider perspectives.