Deception, Miscarriage & Miracles: Crafting Conscious Narratives With Melissa Monte

(ai assist:) Melissa Monty shares her raw journey from a charmed life to rock bottom: sexual assault, suicide loss, dad's death, bulimia, party drugs, and a felony arrest tied to her con-man boyfriend's meth-fueled jewelry theft ring. What started as luxury lies ended in courtroom devastation—but became her greatest gift.

Discover how Melissa broke free through narrative rewriting:

Drama Triangle Traps: Victim, rescuer, persecutor shifts.

Self-Deception Exposed: Law of reflection & red-flag addiction.

Spiral Growth: Matt Kahn's staircase vs. hamster wheel.

Religious Deconstruction: Hell myths, Eleusinian mystery schools, Gnostic texts.

Science of Story: Narrative identity (Dan McAdams) + epiphany bridge marketing.

ADHD as Superpower & miscarriage healing without victimhood.

The Game-Changer: Melissa's 7-Step Framework (Hero's Journey on steroids):

Algorithm: Unpack your subconscious loop.

Disruption: The shock that breaks it.

Awakening: See the pattern clearly.

Resistance: Face fears & sabotage.

Choice: Commit to change.

Embodiment: Live the new you.

Gold: Extract wisdom to serve others.

Perfect for trauma survivors, coaches, podcasters, or anyone stuck repeating cycles. Melissa reveals how to consciously create vs. unconsciously repeat—turning pain into purpose, business, or awakening.

Key Takeaway: "You are always creating. Choose conscious intention over default algorithms."

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0:00 Welcome & Melissa's Intro

0:32 Charmed Life to Trauma Spiral

1:03 Sexual Assault, Suicide, Dad's Death

1:39 Party Girl Mask & Self-Destruction

2:45 Numbing with Alcohol, Bulimia, Drugs

3:06 Luxury Lies: Meeting the Con Man

3:50 Meth Addiction & Hawaii Escape

4:05 Arrest: Stolen Jewelry Bust

5:04 Courtroom Victims & Felony Plea

6:42 Turning Point: Seeing the Algorithm

7:20 Rewriting Your Narrative (Core Work)

7:45 Drama Triangle: Victim, Rescuer, Persecutor

9:29 Self-Deception & Law of Reflection

11:50 LA Stalking & False Healing Trap

13:27 Spiral Growth vs. Hamster Wheel

15:29 View vs. Narrative: Agency in Perspective

16:40 Controlling the Narrative (Power Structures)

18:16 Internet Marketing Win & VP Rise

20:18 Purpose Inquiry: What Lights You Up?

22:31 ADHD as Superpower

23:51 Religious Deconstruction & Hell Myth

25:54 Eleusinian Mysteries: Story as Tech

27:17 Narrative Identity Science

28:28 Epiphany Bridge: Sell Transformation

29:10 Buddhist Mind: Words Shape Reality

31:50 Letting Go of Narrative? (À La Carte Living)

34:01 Labels as Cages: Evolve Your Story

36:49 Miscarriage Trauma: Choosing Meaning

40:31 7-Step Framework Overview

42:09 Step 1: The Algorithm (Your Loop)

43:39 Step 2: Disruption (The Shock)

44:15 Step 3: Awakening (Fog Lifts)

44:47 Step 4: Resistance (Fear Phase)

45:35 Step 5: Choice (Commit to Change)

46:01 Step 6: Embodiment (Live It)

47:11 Step 7: The Gold (Extract Wisdom)

48:25 Real Results: Coaches & Transformations

49:07 Thanks & Contact: MindLove.com

50:39 Final Message: Create Consciously

53:00 Closing Blessings

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