Dear Son, Do As I Say, Not As I Did - Lessons for the New Year | The Dear Son, Show

In this engaging episode of 'The Dear Son, Show,' hosts D Johns and Jey Blac dive into meaningful conversations centered around fatherhood, discussing their personal experiences and the challenges of raising sons. They touch upon topics such as the importance of aligning actions with words, the lessons they've learned from their own fathers, and the significance of being intentional with parental guidance. The hosts also share personal anecdotes about their holiday experiences and offer insights on various life lessons they wish to impart to their sons as they journey through manhood. This episode is packed with valuable advice and relatable stories aimed at fostering better father-son relationships.

00:00 Introduction to The Dead Son Show

00:19 New Year Vibes and Studio Updates

00:40 Family and Holiday Reflections

03:26 Live Show Announcements

04:33 Today's Topic: Dear Son, Do as I Say, Not as I Did

06:29 Father-Son Conversations and Lessons

11:45 Conflict Resolution Among Young Men

16:10 Teaching Practical Skills to Sons

20:12 Generational Criticism and Changing Times

21:20 Handling Confrontation with Wisdom

22:20 Teaching Moments and Personal Growth

27:37 Communication and Responsibility

40:57 Aligning Actions with Words

45:52 Conclusion and Final Thoughts

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Seeds of Growth: Building Bonds, Overcoming Challenges, and Embracing Obedience

In this heartfelt episode of the Dead Sun Show, hosts Joe T, Jey Blac, Reggie George, and D Johns delve into the importance of accepting help, the impact of past experiences, and the power of genuine connections. They share personal stories of struggle and resilience, discuss the significance of obedience, and offer powerful messages about trust and community. Join them as they reflect on growth, celebrate progress, and look forward to the collective success of their journey. Don't miss this inspiring conversation, and be sure to subscribe to the channel and leave a review!

00:00 Introduction and Setting the Scene

00:33 Reflecting on Connections and Serendipity

02:04 Welcoming Guests and Sharing Stories

03:17 The Power of Genuine Connections

08:28 The Importance of 'Why' and Personal Motivations

19:56 Learning to Ask for Help

27:07 The Struggles of Asking for Help

27:39 Trust and Vulnerability in Relationships

30:23 Dealing with Grief and Loss

35:37 Building Skills Through Adversity

38:29 The Importance of Communication

49:26 Encouragement and Moving Forward

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Fatherhood Lessons & Life Conversations

In this episode of 'The Dear Son, Show,' we dive deep into meaningful conversations about fatherhood with special guest, Antoine Clark. D Johns, the host, leads the discussion on the dynamics of growing up with different parental structures, the influence of parenting on shaping futures, and the vital lessons about responsibility and growth. From childhood experiences to navigating adulthood, both speakers reflect on their journeys, share personal stories, and offer insights into fostering strong family bonds. Don't miss this heartfelt discussion that bridges the gaps between parents and children and explores how we can lead by example. Subscribe to the channel and let us know in the comments which part of the discussion resonated with you the most!

00:00 Introduction to the Dear Son Show

00:17 Guest Introduction: An Swan Clark

00:30 Childhood Memories and Family Dynamics

01:17 Father's Influence and Life Lessons

04:37 Marriage and Commitment Perspectives

08:40 Raising Children and Parental Reflections

26:01 Learning Through Experiences

26:26 Balancing Freedom and Responsibility

26:45 Navigating New Experiences

28:28 Conversations About Relationships

29:24 Blended Families and Parenting

29:49 Setting Standards and Discipline

41:01 Financial Wisdom and Legacy

46:15 Reflections on Fatherhood

51:28 Closing Thoughts and Farewell

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Year End Reflections: Wisdom We Wish We Had Learned Sooner

In this episode of 'The Dear Son, Show,' hosts Jey Blac and D Johns engage in a deep and reflective conversation to discuss the wisdom they wish they had known earlier in life. As they navigate through topics like celebrating holidays, the importance of valuing time with family, and lessons learned from 2025, Jey and D Johns offer valuable insights. They touch on topics such as hiring family members, dealing with imposter syndrome, fostering meaningful relationships, and preparing for the future. Tune in for a heartfelt episode that promises to spark meaningful conversations in your home. Don't forget to like, share, and subscribe! Let us know your favorite part in the comment section below.

00:00 Introduction and Holiday Vibes

00:40 Birthday Reflections and Festive Mood

02:29 Studio Updates and Group Chat Buzz

04:17 Topic Introduction: Dear Son, Why Should I Hire You?

05:38 Parental Perspectives on Hiring Family

21:09 Generational Stacking and Family Legacy

27:06 Settling in Texas: Establishing Roots

27:39 Embracing Louisiana Culture

28:40 Challenges of Distance and Travel

31:07 Reflecting on 2025: Lessons and Growth

36:05 Parenting Insights and Family Dynamics

41:52 Navigating Relationships and Personal Growth

42:48 Academic Pursuits and Generational Gaps

47:32 Commitment to Personal and Professional Development

53:07 Closing Thoughts and New Year Wishes

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Dreams Deferred: Fathers and Their Unspoken Desires

Welcome to the 'Dear Son, Show,' where meaningful conversations about life and fatherhood unfold. In this episode, hosts D Johns and Jey Blac delve into the often overlooked dreams and aspirations of fathers. They discuss the balance between providing for their families and pursuing their own passions, sharing personal anecdotes of dreams deferred and the emotional impact of sacrifices made for their loved ones. With humor and honesty, they explore the importance of acknowledging and sharing personal dreams, offering a heartfelt perspective on fatherhood, ambition, and self-worth. Join the conversation, subscribe to the channel, and leave a review to support the show!

00:00 Welcome to the Dead Son Show

00:38 Upcoming Live Event Announcement

01:50 Excitement and Reflections

02:33 Dear Son: Christmas Wishes

05:50 Dreams and Sacrifices

08:58 Self-Worth and Family Dynamics

12:16 Balancing Self and Family

16:25 The Importance of Self-Acknowledgment

22:47 Balancing Family and Personal Aspirations

23:11 The Joy of Traveling and Motorcycling

23:46 Sacrifices for Family Stability

25:41 Reflecting on Personal Dreams and Family Responsibilities

28:17 Encouraging and Understanding Spousal Dreams

35:08 Navigating Personal Failures and Embarrassment

44:07 The Importance of Intentionality and Family Moments

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Navigating Parenthood with Love and Discipline

In this engaging episode of the Dear Son Show, hosts Jey Blac and D Johns share exciting news about their first-ever live show scheduled for January 18th, 2026 in Mansfield, Texas. They discuss the importance of meaningful conversations for young boys and men, reflecting on lessons learned and sharing fatherhood experiences. Key topics include setting boundaries, expressing love while addressing wrongdoings, and preparing children for adulthood. The conversation takes a humorous turn when they delve into personal anecdotes, highlighting the complexities of family dynamics and the significance of clear communication.

00:00 Introduction and Greetings

00:42 Exciting Announcement: First Live Show

02:10 Reflecting on Past Events and Relationships

04:27 Parenting Challenges and Responsibilities

08:01 Managing Expectations and Responsibilities

12:48 Addressing Family Dynamics and Communication

23:41 Facing Rejection and Adjusting Expectations

24:38 Learning Self-Reliance from a Young Age

25:15 The Impact of Over-Nurturing on Independence

26:36 Setting Boundaries in Relationships

28:56 The Consequences of Leading with Money

30:46 The Importance of Communication and Sharing Perspectives

32:26 Navigating Life's Challenges Together

41:21 Reflecting on Personal Growth and Future Plans

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In this heartfelt episode of the 'Dear Son, Show,' we dive into a profound conversation about life, fatherhood, and self-discovery. Host, D Johns explores the journey of our guest, Alexander Dixon, who shares his experiences growing up with absent parents, navigating the pressures of performance, dealing with anger and depression, and ultimately finding his identity as a father. Join us as we unpack the challenges and triumphs of breaking generational patterns, healing emotional wounds, and raising children with love and integrity. Don't forget to subscribe to the channel for more meaningful conversations and let us know which part resonated with you the most in the comments section!

00:00 Introduction to the Dear Son Show

00:17 Guest Introduction and Initial Conversation

01:23 Childhood Reflections and Family Background

03:14 Navigating Adolescence and Parental Relationships

05:31 High School Challenges and Relocation to Texas

10:39 Understanding Parental Struggles and Personal Growth

14:33 Transition to Adulthood and Early Fatherhood

20:04 Parenting Challenges and Personal Reflections

31:26 Balancing Parenthood and Personal Identity

31:55 Facing Emotional Vulnerability

33:02 The Pressure of Performance

34:28 Navigating Fatherhood and Personal Sacrifices

36:14 Rebuilding Relationships and Self-Discovery

39:24 Co-Parenting and Acceptance

41:58 Generational Reflections and Parenting Wisdom

57:45 Final Thoughts and Reflections

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In this engaging episode of The Dear Son Show, hosts D Johns and Jey Blac dive into meaningful conversations about life through the lens of fatherhood. They discuss the importance of preparing for life's storms, both anticipated and unexpected, and share personal stories of overcoming challenges. D Johns talks about his health scare that changed his perspective on life, while Jey Blac reveals how a tragic family loss shaped his identity and resilience. The hosts also explore the impact of public embarrassment and the value of seeking help when needed. Whether you're a father, have a father, or are navigating life without one, this episode offers valuable insights and encouragement for weathering life's storms. Don't forget to subscribe and let us know in the comments which part resonated with you the most!

00:00 Introduction and Greetings

00:44 Holiday Season Excitement

01:05 NAACP Event Recap

01:30 Community Engagement

03:06 Support and Viral Success

04:05 Today's Topic: Dear Sun

04:50 Navigating Life's Storms

10:50 Entrepreneurship Challenges

11:53 Personal Growth and Adjustments

22:37 Public Embarrassment and Family Expectations

25:28 Facing Consequences: A CDL Story

26:35 The Snowball Effect of Ignoring Fines

28:15 The Importance of Preparation and Support

30:26 Creating and Surviving Your Own Storms

33:30 Maintaining Character in Tough Times

34:45 Judgment and Empathy During Hardships

38:38 The Impact of Family and Support Systems

41:05 Personal Reflections on Overcoming Adversity

44:37 Health Scares and Life Changes

51:47 Final Thoughts and Lessons Learned

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