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Dear Dr. Tracy

Dear Dr. Tracy

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Welcome to Dear Dr. Tracy, the podcast that helps you navigate the everyday challenges of relationships, marriage, and parenting with expert advice and real, relatable conversations. Hosted by clinical psychologist and relationship expert Dr. Tracy Dalgleish, this podcast is your place for honest, no-nonsense guidance on love, intimacy, boundaries, and communication. With over 18 years of experience, Dr. Tracy brings a mix of clinical expertise, evidence-based research, and personal insights as a wife and mother to help you break unhealthy patterns and build stronger connections. Each week, Dr. Tracy answers the questions so many of us have but don’t always know how to ask—about resentment, desire, mental load, and how to truly feel like a team with your partner. She’s joined by fellow experts, real couples, and her husband Greg, who offers a down-to-earth perspective on the struggles so many relationships face. If you’re ready for actionable tools and heartfelt conversations that will help you create a relationship that feels fulfilling, this podcast is for you.Cloud10 Desarrollo Personal Higiene y Vida Saludable Psicología Psicología y Salud Mental Éxito Personal
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  • A Thousand Tiny Paper Cuts: Why Resentment Gets So Heavy

    A Thousand Tiny Paper Cuts: Why Resentment Gets So Heavy
    Mar 5 2026
    Resentment isn’t the hot kind of anger that flares and fades. It’s the quiet kind that builds in the background, often after you’ve asked for something over and over, and nothing changes. Dr. Tracy reframes resentment as grief, grief for unmet needs, lost hope, invisibility, and the version of your relationship you thought you were coming home to.She walks through how resentment typically forms in stages: unmet need, repeated pattern, scorekeeping, shutdown, and finally silence. Then she offers a path forward that starts with naming the grief (instead of blaming), asking clearly for what you need in the present, and getting honest about the patterns that keep the cycle going. Resentment isn’t always the end, but it is a signal that something needs to change, and that honesty is the doorway back to agency and connection. LINKS FROM EPISODE: Learn to move past resentment. Save 50% on my Conquer Resentment workshop. Discover your relationship negative cycle with my free quiz:⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Take it here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Feel closer after the More Than Roommates Challenge. Join HERE. Get coaching and community support ⁠Inside⁠ ⁠⁠Be Connected⁠⁠⁠⁠ Feeling Stuck? - Free Guide to challenge your assumptions RESOURCES Get Relationship Support ⁠Inside ⁠⁠Be Connected⁠⁠⁠ Order my new book! ⁠⁠⁠You, Your Husband, and His Mother⁠⁠⁠ Want your questions answered on the show?⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠Submit them here!⁠⁠⁠ Ready to deepen your connection?⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠Download my 100 Questions⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Build better connection and feel close starting today. ⁠⁠Join the⁠ ⁠⁠30 Days to Us Challenge⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ FOLLOW DR. TRACY Subscribe to the podcast⁠ ⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/@drtracyd⁠⁠⁠ Follow on Instagram ⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/drtracyd ⁠⁠⁠Follow on Facebook ⁠⁠⁠https://www.facebook.com/DrTracyD/⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    38 m
  • Stop Taking It Personally: Differentiation in Real Life

    Stop Taking It Personally: Differentiation in Real Life
    Mar 1 2026
    In this episode of From the Couch, Dr. Tracy teaches a relationship skill that quietly changes everything: differentiation. It’s the ability to hold onto your sense of self while staying connected to someone else, and to remember that another person’s thoughts, feelings, needs, or reactions are not automatically a commentary on your worth, your lovability, or whether you’re “doing enough.”Dr. Tracy brings this to life with a real moment from parenting: she’s invited to teach in her child’s classroom, announces it excitedly, and her child panics, afraid of being embarrassed. Instead of vacuuming up the reaction and making it about herself, she practices differentiation by staying beside her child’s experience, validating the feeling, getting curious about what’s underneath it, and co-creating a plan for what her child needs. The result is trust, safety, and connection, not defensiveness or shame.She then zooms out and invites listeners to picture the same moment in adult relationships: when a partner comes home in a bad mood, when a parent makes a guilt-laced request, when an in-law pushes a boundary. Differentiation is how you stop fusing with other people’s emotions, stop personalizing everything, and start responding from clarity and connection. RESOURCES Get Relationship Coaching & Community ⁠Inside ⁠⁠Be Connected⁠⁠⁠ Order my new book! ⁠⁠⁠You, Your Husband, and His Mother⁠⁠⁠ Want your questions answered on the show?⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠Submit them here!⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠ Discover your relationship negative cycle with my free quiz:⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠Take it here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Ready to deepen your connection?⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠Download my 100 Questions⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Build better connection and feel close starting today. ⁠⁠Join the⁠ ⁠⁠30 Days to Us Challenge⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ FOLLOW DR. TRACY Subscribe to the podcast⁠ ⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/@drtracyd⁠⁠⁠ Follow on Instagram ⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/drtracyd ⁠⁠⁠Follow on Facebook ⁠⁠⁠https://www.facebook.com/DrTracyD/⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    16 m
  • How to Talk About Hard Things Without Shame Taking Over

    How to Talk About Hard Things Without Shame Taking Over
    Feb 26 2026
    Dr. Tracy shares a shift that changed how she does couples therapy: most couples think their problem is communication, but often the real blocker is shame. You can have all the scripts, “I statements,” and conflict tools in the world, but when shame shows up, it hijacks the conversation and turns it into a survival response instead of a problem-solving moment.Dr. Tracy breaks down the crucial difference between guilt and shame. Guilt says “I did something wrong” and can lead to repair. Shame says “I am wrong” and pushes people into defensiveness, shutdown, counterattacks, perfectionism, or self-loathing. She explains what’s happening in the brain when shame activates: the prefrontal cortex goes offline, the threat system takes over, and you can’t “logic” your way back into connection.You’ll learn the five ways shame tends to show up during hard conversations, why it’s often rooted in early family conditioning (criticism, withdrawal, emotional invalidation, comparison), and how couples can start creating the emotional safety needed to actually talk about the real issue. Dr. Tracy walks listeners through how shame spirals derail connection, and offers a practical pathway back: pausing, naming what’s happening, asking for safety, and softening enough to rebuild the bridge before returning to the problem.LINKS FROM EPISODE: Scripts for Difficult Conversations - Find out more Here Get Coaching and Community inside Be Connected Here Discover your relationship negative cycle with my free quiz:⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Take it here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ RESOURCES Order my new book! ⁠⁠⁠You, Your Husband, and His Mother⁠⁠⁠ Want your questions answered on the show?⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠Submit them here!⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠ Ready to deepen your connection?⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠Download my 100 Questions⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Build better connection and feel close starting today. ⁠⁠Join the⁠ ⁠⁠30 Days to Us Challenge⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ FOLLOW DR. TRACY Subscribe to the podcast⁠ ⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/@drtracyd⁠⁠⁠ Follow on Instagram ⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/drtracyd ⁠⁠⁠Follow on Facebook ⁠⁠⁠https://www.facebook.com/DrTracyD/⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    48 m
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