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When Scott and Roger lost their dads, they realized there wasn't a dedicated space for men to talk about the "aftermath" in a way that felt grounded and real. This is that space. Each episode, we dive into the unfiltered reality of being a "Dead Dad" club member. We tackle the heavy lifting of grief alongside the unexpected, everyday moments that only happen when you’re clearing out a garage or realizing you have a question only your dad could answer. From the technical headaches of handling an estate to the long-term journey of being a parent and professional while carrying loss, we talk about it all. Whether you’ve been navigating this for years or the loss is brand new, you aren't alone. We’re just the guys making it a little easier to talk about—and sometimes, finding a reason to laugh along the way. New episodes every other Friday. Welcome to the club. Find us at: deaddadspodcast.comCopyright 2026 Ciencias Sociales Relaciones
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  • 20 Years Later — What Grief Looks Like When the Dust Settles (ft. Mike Wasko)

    20 Years Later — What Grief Looks Like When the Dust Settles (ft. Mike Wasko)
    Apr 16 2026

    Mike Wasko's dad died 20 years ago. He's still figuring out what that means.


    At 29, Mike became his father's primary caregiver after a cancer diagnosis. Then he walked out of a doctor's appointment knowing something his dad didn't — and had to decide what to do with that information. That moment changed everything.


    Two decades later, Mike sits down with us to talk about what grief actually looks like when the raw edges start to dull. Spoiler: it doesn't disappear. It just shifts.


    In this episode:

    • What it's like to grow up with a father who intimidated everyone around him — and why Mike now calls that "a gift"
    • Becoming his dad's caregiver at 29, and the one conversation he never should have had to have
    • Why he finally went to therapy — and what his therapist said that reframes grief completely
    • The "cosmic joke" of watching his youngest son become his late father, trait for trait
    • The crater analogy: why grief isn't something you get over — it's something you get used to


    "Grief is the cost of loving someone. And that's just a perfectly natural response."


    If you're years out and still feel it — this one's for you. And if you're just starting, this is what 20 years of living with it looks like. It gets different. Maybe even better.


    Chapters:

    00:00 – Introduction: Who Is Mike Wasko?

    01:21 – Mike Joins the Pod: 20 Years of Grief

    02:34 – Why He's Talking About It Now

    04:23 – Meet Bob Wasko: "Larger Than Life"

    06:23 – His Dad's Parenting Style: Tough Love & Unconventional Fun

    07:25 – The Diagnosis: Six Months, and a Secret to Keep

    13:34 – Giving Up His Life to Move In With His Dying Dad

    15:12 – The Falling Out — and the Reconciliation That Changed Everything

    18:16 – Anger, Therapy, and "The Cost of Loving Someone"

    24:50 – Becoming a Dad and Finding His Father in Himself

    29:10 – His Kids Ask Why Grandpa Died (and Want to Build a Robot of Him)

    31:37 – Approaching the Age His Dad Died

    32:28 – Mike's Grief Analogy: The Crater That Never Fills

    35:35 – Final Thoughts & Where to Follow


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    36 m
  • Grief for Men After Your Dad Dies | The Dead Dads Check-In

    Grief for Men After Your Dad Dies | The Dead Dads Check-In
    Apr 9 2026

    What does grief actually look like after losing your dad?


    In this Dead Dads Check-In, we talk about the parts of father loss that don’t always get said out loud. The family vacation that feels off without him. The anniversary rituals that keep him close. The question of whether to keep his stuff or get rid of it. Crying in front of your kids. Dad jokes. Garage clutter. Random sayings. All of it.


    This episode is for men dealing with grief, father loss, and the strange mix of sadness, guilt, humor, memory, and love that comes after your dad dies. If your grief has felt messy, uneven, or unexpectedly funny at times, this one will feel familiar.


    What you’ll get out of this episode

    • A more honest picture of what grief can look like after losing a father
    • A reminder that grief is not just sadness. It can also be guilt, laughter, rituals, and random memories
    • A way to think about what to keep, and what to let go
    • Reassurance that grief moves around. It does not show up the same way every day
    • Permission to cry in front of your kids without feeling weak
    • A reminder that remembering your dad can happen through small family traditions, not just big emotional moments
    • The feeling that you’re not the only one whose grief looks messy, uneven, or unexpectedly funny


    Chapter list

    00:00 When your son sees you cry

    00:32 Where grief sits right now

    01:09 The first family vacation without dad

    01:51 How we mark our dad’s anniversary

    02:29 Helping your kids remember their grandpa

    03:10 Dollar store memories and dad clutter

    04:09 The appliances dads absolutely did not need

    04:57 First concerts and dads waiting in the car

    05:17 Should you keep your dad’s stuff after he dies?

    06:37 Is it okay for men to cry?

    07:06 Crying in front of your kids after father loss

    09:20 Are dad jokes actually funny?

    10:25 The expressions every dad repeated to death

    10:49 Garage junk, batteries, and classic dad behavior


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    11 m
  • He Got the Call… and Had to Tell His Family His Dad Was Dead

    He Got the Call… and Had to Tell His Family His Dad Was Dead
    Apr 3 2026
    Start here if you need the quick versionIf you’re dealing with losing your dad, or your dad died suddenly and you had to handle everything, this episode will feel familiar. John got the call. Then had to sit down with his mom and brother and tell them their dad was gone. No plan, no instructions, no will. Just responsibility. The kind you definitely didn’t apply for… but somehow got the job anyway.If you have a little more timeJohn shares what it’s like to lose a father when nothing is prepared. There’s no will, no clear instructions, and no estate planning. You have to make big decisions while you’re still trying to process that it really happened.We talk about what it’s like to tell your family that someone has died, and how it feels to be the one sharing that news. In the first few days, funeral planning, logistics, and paperwork appear right away, like a to-do list you never wanted.There’s also pressure that hits fast. People expect you to be the strong one, to stay steady, to carry it for everyone else. This is where emotional stoicism in men shows up, and where it can start to crack a bit under the weight.We also talk about the unfinished conversations, the questions you never asked, and the things you assumed you’d have time to figure out. Turns out, that part doesn’t just fade out quietly.This episode is also practical. If you’re looking for real advice on losing a parent or trying to understand how to deal with grief, there are takeaways here. Especially around what happens when there’s no will, and how avoidable estate planning mistakes can make a hard situation a lot harder.If you’re dealing with the loss of a father, or supporting someone who is, this episode offers an honest look at grief without pretending it’s simple or easy.In this episode, you’ll learn:- What it’s actually like to get the call and then be the one who has to tell your family- What the first few days look like after your dad dies, not the version people imagine, the real one- How to handle everything when there’s no will, no plan, and no clear instructions- Why the pressure to be “the strong one” shows up fast, and what it does to you- Why the conversations you didn’t have stick with you longer than you expect- How to make decisions when nothing feels clear and you don’t trust your own judgment yet- What you can do now so your family isn’t left figuring it out while they’re grievingJohn and his dadJohn Abreu spent his childhood in both Venezuela and Canada. His father (John Abreu Sr.), a mathematician, lived by discipline, hard work, and always being there for his family. He encouraged John to think more deeply and strive for better, even if John didn’t always see the value then.In 2022, his dad died suddenly, with no plan and no will, leaving John to tell his family and handle everything that followed. Now he’s focused on carrying forward what mattered, while being more open and proactive so the people around him aren’t left guessing.In this episode:0:00 – Why Small Moments Hit Hardest (grief shows up when you don’t expect it)0:23 – What This Podcast Is (real talk about male grief, not expert advice)1:02 – Why Talking About Losing Your Dad Matters (even if guys avoid it)2:42 – What You Carry From Your Dad (what only makes sense later)6:01 – The One Sentence That Sticks Long After He’s Gone7:24 – What You Might Do Differently (especially around stoicism)8:53 – What It’s Like to Get the Call (how fast everything changes)12:09 – How to Tell Your Family Someone Died (when you’re not ready)13:47 – When Responsibility Lands on You (and you don’t get a choice)16:27 – What the First Few Days Look Like (shock, logistics, priorities)17:38 – What Happens Without a Will (why it gets heavier)19:17 – How to Make Decisions Without Clear Answers20:14 – What “Doing It Right” Means (burial, cremation, meaning)21:58 – How to Honor Someone So It Lasts (beyond the funeral)23:59 – How Grief Changes Over Time (staying strong isn’t enough)25:45 – How Losing Your Dad Shows Up in Parenting28:24 – The Questions You’ll Wish You Asked (and why you didn’t)31:50 – What You Can Do Now to Prepare (so family isn’t guessing)33:21 – What Grief Sounds Like Years Later (the sentence that stays)About Dead DadsDead Dads is a podcast for guys figuring out life after losing their dad.It’s real conversations about grief, identity, and everything that comes after.You’re not alone. Follow + ConnectWebsite: https://www.deaddadspodcast.com/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@deaddadspodcast Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/deaddadspodcast/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ddadspodSubstack: https://substack.com/@deaddadspodcast/notes New episodes every other week.
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