Is Pain Normal, or Are You Just Used to It? with Dr. Courtney Miller, Licensed Clinical PsychologistWhat if the pain you’ve learned to live with isn’t actually normal… it’s just familiar?In this episode of Daring Discussions, I’m joined by Dr. Courtney Miller, a licensed clinical psychologist, for an honest, eye-opening conversation about pain, trauma, and the quiet ways we normalize suffering just to survive.We talk about how emotional pain gets mislabeled as strength, why so many of us stay in patterns that hurt us, and how coping mechanisms can slowly turn into cages. We also unpack what healing really means for Black Christian Women.If you’ve ever said, “This is just how life is,”If you’ve learned how to function through pain instead of heal from it,If you’re wondering whether relief is even possible for you…This episode is an invitation to pause and ask a better question.Because just because you’ve survived it… doesn’t mean you were meant to carry it forever.Press play. This one might change how you live your own story.GuestDr. Courtney Miller, Psy.D. https://www.thethrivelife.co/Licensed Clinical Psychologist in California, a disciple of Jesus Christ, wife of nine years, mother of two boys, and ministry leader. She is passionate about helping women integrate faith, emotional health, and purpose as they become who God has called them to be.Dr. Miller provides therapy, coaching, and faith-based trainings and workshops for individuals, churches, and organizations. She is the founder of Thrive, an organization dedicated to equipping women to grow in faith and confidently build what God has placed on their hearts, personally, spiritually, and professionally.You can stay connected with her on Instagram @drcourtneymiller and on YouTube @DrCourtneyMiller. You can email her at drcourtneyamiller@gmail.com.

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In this episode of Daring Discussions, I sat down with Sylvia Brooks whose path to 30 was anything but typical...and yet, deeply relatable. From purity culture pressures to shifting definitions of worth, we unpack what it means to hold space for desire, disappointment, and divine timing.

This isn’t a conversation about shame. It’s one about honesty, healing, and finding freedom...no matter what age, background, or bedroom status you're coming from.

Whether you're abstinent by conviction, circumstance, or confusion... this one’s for you.

Whew. This one is real, raw, and redemptive.

In this episode of Daring Discussions, I’m sitting down with Joanna and Matthew Raabsmith, marriage coaches, and proof that healing is possible. We talk about what happens when the damage of pornography meets the covenant of marriage… and how grace, communication, accountability, and faith walked them through it.

Drawing from their own journey of healing after experiencing the devastation of sexual addiction and betrayal in their marriage, Matthew and Joanna bring

authenticity, hope, and practical wisdom to every conversation.

Whether you’re single, married, or somewhere in between, this conversation offers hope, insight, and a clear picture of what redemption can look like…in AND out of the bedroom.