Dancing Before the Grim Reaper

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What if the path to real courage runs straight through the truth we most avoid—our own mortality? We open Ecclesiastes 9 and find not despair but a daring invitation: live fully under God’s hand, receive simple gifts with gratitude, cherish your closest relationships, and throw your whole heart into the work before you.

We start by reframing control. Your deeds are in the hand of God—not erased, not micromanaged, but dignified within His sovereign care. That clarity quiets the frantic need to prove yourself and frees you to pursue excellence with integrity. From there, we face Solomon’s blunt claim that the same event—death—comes to everyone. Denial breeds bravado; wisdom breeds joy. When you accept the appointment, you stop numbing out and start paying attention to the meal on your table, the laughter in your home, and the purpose in your craft.

Then come the imperatives: go, eat, drink, rejoice, love, and work. We talk about why bread and wine, clean clothes and oil, become symbols of defiant hope; how enjoying life with the spouse you love builds a resilient heart; and why “whatever your hand finds to do, do it with your might” is a daily rule for vocation, service, and creativity. Along the way, we explore how ordinary delights act as appetizers of heaven—small foretastes of a world beyond the curse where feasting, relationship, and meaningful service never end.

If you’re ready to trade anxious striving for joyful obedience, and vague optimism for concrete practices, this conversation will meet you where you live—at the table, in your marriage, at your desk, and in your neighborhood. Listen now, subscribe for more wisdom woven from Scripture, and share this episode with someone who needs courage to savor today. And if it helped you, leave a review so others can find it too.

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