DON'T TRY TO BE ALL THINGS TO ALL PEOPLE...

This week, I want to talk to you about why you shouldn't attempt to please everyone. This is because, by spreading yourself too thin, you risk losing your authenticity.

Remember, people often say that you shouldn't try to please all of the people all of the time. Instead, try to focus only on what makes you unique, rather than trying to conform to everyone else's expectations.

It’s really liberating to focus on only what truly matters to you. Don't dilute your strengths, by attempting to please everyone. Instead, cultivate the qualities that make you stand out from the crowd.

You usually find that, when you embrace your individuality, you create stronger and more genuine connections with others, as most people will appreciate your honesty and your true self shines through. By doing so, you also free yourself from external pressures, which additionally leads to more personal growth. By prioritising your true values, you will find that you navigate life with more confidence and purpose.

Here are some examples:

- An artist who develops a distinct style will attract more genuine admirers, rather than simply mimicking other artists and trends. - A writer whose style resonates with their voice, may connect better with a specific audience, rather than if they attempted to write in a way that could appeal to everyone. - A chef who focuses on creating a unique cuisine, may gain a more loyal following than if they had tried to please everybody’s taste. - A teacher who finds that they connect more deeply with their students, if they just focus on their strengths, rather than covering every topic superficially. - A business that narrows its offerings, may become a leader in a niche field, instead of trying to be a jack of all trades.

​However, it's really important to understand that the whole concept of trying to please everyone can not only dilute your message, but also create stress. For example, while aiming to satisfy various demands, you might neglect your original purpose, which can then lead to burnout and dissatisfaction with whatever you do. ​ So, this week, remember that focusing on what makes you unique will lead you to deeper connections and more fulfilling outcomes. You must always trust in your own abilities and remind yourself that you shouldn't try to be all things to all people!