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In this episode of Come.Union, we’re diving into a phrase that’s often misunderstood in Christian spaces: the “Fear of God.”

Is it about punishment? Control? Living in terror of messing up?

Or… is there something deeper and more beautiful?

We explore how the biblical concept of fear is less about being afraid and more about reverence, awe, and respect. Through honest conversation, personal stories, and scriptural insights, we challenge the fear-based theology many of us inherited and offer a fresh perspective of God—not as a distant authoritarian, but as a loving protector.

In this episode, we talk about:

* Why “fearing God” doesn’t mean living in shame

* What the Bible actually says about fear and reverence

* How we’ve been unlearning fear-based religion

* What it looks like to build a relationship with God rooted in love and trust

If you’ve ever felt afraid of God—or unsure how to relate to Him beyond rules and fear—this conversation is for you.

We’re back with Season 3, and we’re so excited to kick things off with this conversation.

In this episode, we (Ramonita and Erin) get real about the complexities of faith—especially when it comes to trusting God’s goodness in the middle of pain, doubt, and hard seasons. We talk about where our questions about God’s character come from, how the prosperity gospel has shaped some of our thinking, and what it looks like to move from a fear-based relationship with God to one that’s actually rooted in love and trust.

You’ll hear personal stories, some honest wrestling, and reflections on how worship, community, and reframing our narratives can help us see God’s goodness—even when life doesn’t make sense. We also dig into the story of Joseph as a powerful reminder that purpose can come from our pain, and that asking God the hard questions is part of what grows our faith.

We also have some exciting news: we're moving to Substack! We want to create more space for deeper conversation with you, our community. From here on out, you'll only hear short teasers of each episode on this platform. To hear the full episodes and join the conversation, head over to our Substack after this episode. We’d love to see you there: https://comeunion.substack.com/

We’re so glad you’re here. Let’s jump in.

This is our season finale of season 2 and we cannot wait for where we are headed for season 3!

In a world filled with division and brokenness, hosts Ramonita and Erin dive deep into the heart of reconciliation with God, self, and others. In this episode they discuss the topic of expectations: the ones we have for ourself, the ones we have for others and the expectations others have for us. Reflecting on the power of intentionally loving others, unmet expectations and the spiritual warfare shaping our society, they confront the harsh realities of our current world. Join them as they navigate through the challenges of a divided society, emphasizing the importance of unity, love, and understanding. Featuring a powerful discussion sparked by real-life events, including the tragic story of Sonia Massey.

Key Takeaways:

* Discover the impact of expectations on self-perception and relationships.

* Embrace the journey towards self-love and acceptance, prioritizing God's view of us over societal standards.

* Explore the significance of reconciliation with God, ourselves, and others in a divided world.

* Reflect on the power of intentional love and the need for empathy in a polarized society.

* Acknowledge the role of spiritual warfare in societal division and the importance of seeking unity and understanding.

Stay tuned for Season 3 coming THIS FALL 2025!

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