Coffee with The Pastor | Leading Without Controlling | (Re-Air)

“Jesus led by invitation, not manipulation.”

Whether you're a pastor, parent, teacher, or business leader, this conversation challenges you to reflect on how you're leading—and who you're truly following.

Today we revisit a pwerful and engaging conversation between Pastor Andy and Trent Haywood, Pastor of Hillcrest Baptist Church in Raeford, NC.

In this deeply personal and Scripture-rooted episode, Andy and Trent discuss the biblical difference between godly leadership and unhealthy control. Drawing from 1 Peter 5 and John 10, they reflect on how Jesus led by invitation, not manipulation, and why humility and authenticity are central to lasting spiritual influence.


Key Scriptures

• 1 Peter 5:1–4 – Shepherding without lording
• John 10:27 – “My sheep hear my voice…”
• Matthew 20:25–28 – Leading through servanthood
• Galatians 5:1 – Freedom in Christ
• Ephesians 4:11–12 – Equipping the saints
• James 3:17 – Wisdom that brings peace

Next Steps & Resources

• Connect with West Fayetteville Baptist Church at wfaybc.net
• Visit Hillcrest Baptist Church in Raeford at hillcrestraeford.com
• Listen to more episodes at Christian1057.com

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