Co-Parenting Your LGBTQ+ Child

Summary

Hilary Smiley shares her experience of parenting a transgender child and the challenges she faced. She emphasizes the importance of early intervention and seeking help from gender clinics. Hilary discusses the medical aspect of caring for a transgender child, including puberty blockers and hormone therapy. She also talks about the emotional journey of accepting and affirming her child's gender identity. Hilary encourages parents to forgive themselves for any mistakes and to prioritize their child's happiness and well-being. The conversation explores the challenges and experiences of co-parenting a transgender child. We discuss the importance of open communication, patience, and understanding in supporting their children's gender identity. We also address common misconceptions and offer advice for parents who may be struggling to accept their child's gender identity. The conversation emphasizes the need for therapy and professional support for both the child and the parents. Overall, we highlight the importance of affirming and empowering transgender children to live their authentic lives.

Keywords

transgender, parenting, gender identity, early intervention, gender clinic, medical care, puberty blockers, hormone therapy, acceptance, emotional journey, co-parenting, transgender child, open communication, acceptance, therapy, support

Takeaways

Early intervention and seeking help from gender clinics is crucial for transgender children.

Medical professionals play a vital role in guiding parents and children through the transition process.

Parents may experience a range of emotions and challenges, but it's important to prioritize their child's happiness and well-being.

Forgiving oneself for mistakes and being open to learning and growth is essential in supporting a transgender child. Open and honest communication is crucial when co-parenting a transgender child.

Parents should be patient and understanding as their child explores their gender identity.

Therapy and professional support are essential for both the child and the parents.

Acceptance and affirmation are key to helping transgender children thrive.

Parents should educate themselves and seek resources to better understand their child's experience.