In this episode of Chu on This!, Dr. Katie W. Chu sits down with cataract and glaucoma surgeon Dr. Kay Khine for a warm, honest, and deeply relatable conversation about identity, leadership, and what it really means to grow into yourself.
Dr. Khine shares her journey from growing up as one of the few minorities in a small town in Minnesota to building a practice with her husband in Pasadena. Along the way, she reflects on navigating professional hierarchies during residency, where staying true to herself often meant balancing authenticity with expectation.
The conversation explores how both Katie and Kay have evolved, particularly when it comes to speaking up, setting boundaries, and stepping into leadership. Dr. Khine shares how she once avoided confrontation, choosing to stay quiet and let things go, but now embraces difficult conversations as a necessary part of leadership, advocacy, and running a business.
Beyond career, the episode highlights the importance of balance. As a mother, Kay reflects on the value of family time, the importance of protecting personal space, and the challenge of learning to say no, even when it feels uncomfortable.
The discussion also dives into legacy, moving beyond titles and external validation toward something more meaningful. Both Katie and Kay emphasize the importance of the impact we have on others, through patient care, relationships, and how we show up in everyday life.
This episode is a grounded reminder that growth is not about perfection. It is about learning, evolving, and choosing to live in alignment with what matters most.
Key Takeaways
Growth often requires learning to speak up Confidence is not always natural. It is built through experience, leadership, and trusting your voice, even when it feels uncomfortable.
Boundaries are essential, especially as life evolves Learning to say no is one of the most important shifts, particularly when balancing career, leadership, and family. Boundaries protect what matters most.
Legacy is about impact, not titles True success is not defined by titles or achievements, but by the lives we touch and the way we show up for others.
Quotes from the Episode
“I used to just let things go… but now I’m not too shy anymore to speak up for myself.”
“Sometimes I just say no… my daughter needs me.”
“I hope that I’ve touched people’s lives… and that I’m more than just a title.”
About Dr. Kay Khine
Dr. Kay T. Khine is a cataract and glaucoma surgeon with a strong commitment to both clinical excellence and patient centered care.
Born in Burma (Myanmar), she immigrated to the United States at age 11 and later attended the University of Southern California. She earned her medical degree at East Carolina University, followed by her internship at Harbor-UCLA Medical Center.
Dr. Khine completed her ophthalmology residency at University of North Carolina at Chapel Hill and her glaucoma fellowship at the renowned Bascom Palmer Eye Institute, consistently ranked among the top ophthalmology institutions in the United States.
She provides advanced medical and surgical care for glaucoma, cataracts, dry eye, macular degeneration, and diabetic eye disease. Dr. Khine also serves as a Voluntary Assistant Professor at the University of Miami Miller School of Medicine, continuing her involvement in academic research.
Fluent in Burmese, she is passionate about serving the diverse San Gabriel Valley community.
Connect with Dr. Kay Khine
Website: https://www.focuseyecenterla.com/
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/focuseyecenterla/
Instagram: https://instagram.com/focuseyecenterla