Chris Braitch and Piers Cross (Video); Command, Control, and Compassion: A Self-Reflective Approach

Summary

In this conversation Naomi Murphy and David Jones explore the nature of leadership, emotional intelligence, and the impact of childhood experiences on leadership styles. Piers Cross and Chris Braitch share insights on how leadership can be developed, the importance of compassion, and the societal implications of leadership behaviors.

Here is a link to their upcoming online workshop,

https://www.eventbrite.co.uk/e/leadership-under-pressure-how-you-can-manage-pressure-better-tickets-1982772564114?aff=oddtdtcreator

And to their website: https://compassionateleadersglobal.com/

keywords

Leadership, Emotional Intelligence, Compassionate Leadership, Childhood Trauma, Organizational Culture, Leadership Training, Management vs Leadership, Wounded Leaders, Societal Impact, Personal Development.

key topics

Leadership development and the nature vs nurture debate

The impact of childhood trauma and adverse experiences on leadership styles

The importance of emotional intelligence and compassion in leadership

Differences between management and leadership

The societal and organizational implications of leadership behaviors

sound bites

"Leaders aren't just born, they are made."

"Leadership is a teachable skill set."

"Business success depends on compassionate leadership."

Chapters

00:00 The Nature of Leadership: Born or Made?

04:45 Learning Leadership Through Osmosis

08:48 The Impact of Childhood on Leadership Styles

11:37 Distinguishing Leadership from Management

18:14 Institutional Experiences and Leadership Development

24:32 Consequences of Suppressing Emotions in Leadership

24:54 The Fall of a Leader: Personal Struggles and Realizations

27:04 The Command and Control Leadership Style: Pros and Cons

29:57 Compassion in Leadership: A Necessary Shift

32:26 Pressure Reveals True Leadership: The Impact of Stress

38:44 The Dark Side of Leadership: Accountability and Vulnerability

43:09 Creating Compassionate Leaders: A New Approach to Leadership Development

48:57 Ten second outro video.mp4

Chris Braitch has a mission to move himself and the world around him towards connection and compassion. He works as an emotional health coach, leadership coach with Compassionate Leaders Global, and as a founding director of Seen & Heard, a not-for-profit offering wellbeing support to past and present pupils of the private school system, many of whom have experienced institutional abuse and neglect. After two decades in sales, marketing, and management for global consumer goods companies, Chris’s life was upended by unresolved childhood trauma, the grief of losing his young son and mother, and addiction, leading to a breakdown in 2021. Through coaching, men’s groups, Emotional Freedom Technique, and a spiritual awakening, he rebuilt his life. Now addiction-free, he has found his purpose, transformed his parenting, and is committed to serving others with compassion and authenticity.

https://seenheard.org.uk/

"Piers Cross is an author, coach, and documentary producer specialising in boarding school trauma. He is also the founder of Compassionate Leaders Global, an organisation dedicated to developing emotionally intelligent, compassionate leaders for the future.

https://www.piers-cross.com/

resources

Compassionate Leaders Global - https://compassionateleaders.global

Emma Seppälä - Stanford Professor on Stress and Leadership - https://www.stanford.edu

Doris Kearns Goodwin - Leadership and Emotional Intelligence - https://www.amazon.com

Steven Spielberg's Lincoln Movie - https://www.youtube.com

The Body Keeps the Score by Bessel van der Kolk - https://www.amazon.com/The-Body-Keeps-Score-Psychiatry/dp/0143127748