Choosing Your Battles: Mental Health Activism

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What happens when the cost of having your voice heard threatens your wellbeing? In this raw, unplanned conversation, we explore the painful reality many professionals face: choosing which battles to fight and which to walk away from.

The discussion begins with a triggering incident in a professional setting where unprofessional behavior created a hostile environment. From there, we unpack the specific challenges faced by those with "dynamic disabilities" – conditions that aren't immediately visible but significantly impact daily life. "But you look fine" becomes a phrase that dismisses real suffering and forces many to function with what we call "acceptable pain."

We dive deep into the question that haunts many advocates: Is it our responsibility to endure microaggressions and dismissive behaviors so our voices can be heard in important spaces? Or do we prioritize our health by walking away? There's no simple answer, but we offer a framework for deciding which hills are worth the toll they take on your wellbeing.

A powerful cancer metaphor emerges – becoming "the forefront on holding that cancer so it doesn't spread" while ensuring you don't perish from that same cancer. This captures the delicate balance between fighting for change and self-preservation. We examine the disconnect between decision-makers and frontline workers, the financial burden of maintaining wellness while advocating, and the radical notion that rest itself can be a form of activism.

Share your experiences with us and help us see the good being done amidst what sometimes feels like overwhelming darkness. Remember – you're not alone in this struggle to make a difference while taking care of yourself.

A Hero's Welcome Podcast © Maria Laquerre-Diego & Liliana Baylon