Show notes and resources are here: https://bit.ly/caretechandtips-resources

In this episode, Barry and Bobby kick off the new year by talking about something that quietly hurts a lot of caregivers: completion bias—that irresistible urge to “just finish one more thing,” even when you’re already exhausted.

Barry shares how that mindset recently earned him a tweaked back while working on his dad’s house, and the conversation turns into a much bigger truth: caregiving isn’t a completion game—it’s a sustainability game.

They introduce the idea of energy budgeting (treating your energy like money), talk about setting limits before you’re wiped out, and why stopping at a sensible point is often the responsible choice—even if the job isn’t done.

Then things turn very practical:

• A serious PSA about norovirus (and why hand sanitizer doesn’t cut it)

• Why bleach, isolation, and timing actually matter

• How shoes and carpets can spread it (yep… gross)

• Why this season’s combo of norovirus, flu, and measles is especially dangerous for older adults

They also cover:

• A disturbing scam attempt targeting Bobby’s mom by pretending to be him

• Why even smart, tech-savvy people can get fooled now

• Why you should never respond to money requests in texts or late-night calls

Plus:

• An important update: The IRS is phasing out paper refund checks — direct deposit and digital methods are becoming the default

• A follow-up on Barry’s “parking lot list” strategy for deferring tasks

• A very real, very human conversation about how hard it is to close the last digital loops after losing someone

This is one of those episodes that’s part practical survival guide, part emotional reality check, and part permission slip to stop running yourself into the ground.

Caregiving doesn’t arrive as one big problem—it shows up as dozens of small, interrupting, emotionally loaded moments.

In this episode, Barry and Bobby catch up after a busy stretch and walk through real-world caregiving challenges: managing constant “I want” requests without burning out, navigating Medicare scams, handling technology changes during a parent’s move, and addressing sensitive caregiving situations with dignity and respect.

Along the way, they share practical systems, hard-earned lessons, and reminders caregivers don’t hear often enough: you’re doing something important, and it matters.

This episode is part therapy, part field manual, and very much grounded in lived experience.

Show notes and resources are here:
https://bit.ly/caretechandtips-resources

We are taking a holiday hiatus! See you soon.

In this episode, Barry and Bobby pull back the curtain on how social media platforms turn engagement into profit. They discuss how seemingly innocent viral posts — alien probes, heartwarming rescue stories, outrage memes — are part of a larger playbook designed to harvest your attention and cash it in.

They also talk about how this algorithmic manipulation affects older adults, from Facebook feeds to TV commercials targeting their fears and habits. The conversation naturally flows into practical caregiver strategies: recognizing manipulative messaging, understanding alert systems like Amber Alerts, and calming stressed loved ones when tech overwhelms them.

Later in the show, Barry shares a Medicare billing scam story involving fake catheter charges and offers practical reminders to check Explanation of Benefits statements. They also discuss holiday planning with loved ones in assisted living, Barry’s exciting progress with his dad’s house move, and strategies to make gatherings accessible and emotionally inclusive.

The episode closes on a reflective note: caregiver guilt, the importance of self-care, and how journaling (digital or analog) can help process the emotional weight of caregiving.

In this episode, Barry and Bobby swap stories about the crossover between caregiving, tech frustrations, and everyday home life. Bobby kicks things off with a home renovation project for his mom, complete with construction noise, remote monitoring via cameras, and a surprise internet outage. Barry jumps in with his own tale of upgrading his dad’s iPhone, getting forced into iOS 26, and discovering the magic of Apple Support’s DFU mode — while realizing his dad barely noticed the changes.

From there, the guys shift gears into lawn care. Bobby shares his experience testing the LawnStarter app, comparing it to Uber for yards, and weighing the pros and cons of robotic mowers. Barry relates how services like this could help his dad too, and together they reflect on how these solutions ease the caregiving load.

The episode closes with a bigger-picture takeaway: in caregiving — just like coding and life — it’s easy to “admire problems” instead of solving them. The real win is moving past hesitation and taking action, with community support and a little humor to keep things rolling.

Show notes and resources are here: https://bit.ly/caretechandtips-resources

• Renovations for aging parents bring unique challenges (noise, mobility, logistics).

• Remote monitoring tech (cameras) helps ease caregiver stress.

• Device upgrades often force you into new operating systems — be ready.

• Apple Support’s DFU mode is a lifesaver when things go sideways.

• LawnStarter is like Uber for lawn care — affordable, transparent, and flexible.

• Robotic mowers are getting closer to being practical for average yards.

• Caregivers need to test new tech before rolling it out to loved ones.

• Apple Support continues to be surprisingly excellent.

• Problem-solving beats “admiring problems” — take action instead of just worrying.

• Sharing stories builds community and helps other caregivers find solutions.

00:00 Home Renovation and Caregiving Challenges
04:20 Barry vs. iOS 26 (and Apple DFU Mode)
11:14 Caregivers Testing Tech First
13:38 LawnStarter App and Uber for Yards
22:00 Robotic Mowers: Cool or Costly?
26:30 Ratings, Trust, and Caregiving Services
28:30 Problem-Solving vs. Admiring Problems
30:50 Closing Thoughts and Community

• (00:00:00) - Home Renovation and Caregiving Challenges
• (00:04:20) - Barry vs. iOS 26 (and Apple DFU Mode)
• (00:11:14) - Caregivers Testing Tech First
• (00:13:38) - LawnStarter App and Uber for Yards
• (00:22:00) - Robotic Mowers: Cool or Costly?
• (00:26:30) - Ratings, Trust, and Caregiving Services
• (00:28:30) - Problem-Solving vs. Admiring Problems
• (00:30:50) - Closing Thoughts and Community

Barry experiments with a new recording setup while he and Bobby catch up on family, caregiving, and—of course—technology. Barry shares the saga of helping his dad navigate the real estate market (finances, Zillow, and chasing unicorn houses), while Bobby talks about exploring fall-detection tech for loved ones. The conversation flows naturally into Apple’s latest features—fall detection, gait monitoring, hypertension detection, and how an Apple Watch can be a caregiving lifeline.

The two also riff on sleeper features like Apple’s Focus modes—why they’re underrated, how they work across devices, and how they can keep interruptions at bay. With plenty of practical advice and humor, this episode is equal parts caregiving reality check and tech geek-out.

Show notes and resources are here: https://bit.ly/caretechandtips-resources

• 00:01 – Barn studio, travel “circuits,” and catching up

• 01:38 – Helping Barry’s dad with real estate decisions

• 02:50 – Pre-approvals, PDFs, and electronic paperwork hacks

• 04:51 – Location, price, amenities—the real estate unicorn triangle

• 06:26 – Losing the perfect house to developers

• 08:34 – Zillow filters, notifications, and workarounds for tech-challenged relatives

• 11:34 – Real-time tech riff: sharing listings via screenshots, videos, and apps

• 11:52 – Bobby on fall detection tech: wearables, AI cameras, gait monitoring

• 13:56 – Preventative monitoring and professional services

• 15:21 – New Apple releases: iOS 26, Watch updates, hypertension detection

• 17:36 – Apple Watch features for caregiving (AFib, sleep, mental health indicators)

• 18:49 – Persuading loved ones to wear Apple Watches, notifications vs. lifelines

• 19:33 – Personal stories: fall detection, Dick Tracy nostalgia, used watch bargains

• 22:27 – Spam call filtering and blocking for seniors

• 24:26 – Apple Focus modes explained and why they’re underrated

• 28:28 – Wrapping up: one-year podcast anniversary and looking ahead

• Real estate lessons for aging parents: loans, pre-approvals, and the “unicorn house” myth

• Zillow tips: filters, notifications, and workarounds for older family members

• Fall detection tech: wearables, AI cameras, preventative gait monitoring, professional services

• Apple Watch features for caregivers: fall detection, AFib alerts, hypertension warnings, location sharing

• Apple Focus modes: how they quietly change the game for reducing interruptions

Show notes and resources are here: https://bit.ly/caretechandtips-resources

In this packed episode, Barry and Bobby cover the latest in caregiving tech, health updates, and a few curveballs life throws at us. From Apple’s life-saving features to IRS rule changes, we’ve got you covered with practical tips, laughs, and real-world advice.

• 00:00 – Back-to-school chaos & catching up

• 01:18 – Apple Health app: Medication tracking & alerts

• 04:01 – Apple Watch: Blood oxygen monitoring returns after patent dispute

• 08:09 – Setting up emergency contacts on iPhone & Apple Watch

• 10:32 – Sharing health data securely with loved ones or caregivers

• 14:18 – IRS ditching paper checks after Sept 30 – what you need to do

• 18:13 – Show notes, reviews, and the podcast’s 1-year milestone

• 19:26 – Shoutout: Carolina Code Conference and geeky T-shirts

• 20:37 – Tech gadgets: Apple betas & accessibility features

• 21:57 – Caregiver syndrome response from last episode

• 23:01 – Spectrum cable change-up in assisted living facilities: what to watch for

• 26:19 – Surprise: New routers bring high-speed internet upgrades

• 28:01 – Wrapping up & how to support the show

• Apple Health App: Medication tracking with pill shape/colors & critical alerts.

• Apple Watch Updates: Blood oxygen monitoring restored (watchOS 11.6.1 + iOS 18.6.1).

• Emergency Contacts: Setup tips for iPhone and Apple Watch.

• Health Data Sharing: Options for iPhone, Android, MyChart, and family access.

• IRS Digital Payments: Direct Pay & ID.me setup before Sept 30 deadline.

• Spectrum TV Changes: Assisted living tips, favorites setup, and ZoomO box info.

• Carolina Code Conference: Shoutout to Barry Jones & the geeky coder community.

• Caregiver Support: Responses to caregiver syndrome episode (#22).

Join Barry and Bobby as they dive into the world of email spoofing, passkeys, and caregiving syndrome. Discover how to protect yourself from digital scams, simplify your online security, and manage the emotional toll of caregiving. With practical tips and a touch of humor, this episode is a must-listen for anyone navigating the complexities of modern tech and caregiving.

Timestamps:

00:00 - Introduction: Email Spoofing and Passkeys
05:30 - Understanding Email Spoofing
12:15 - The Rise of Passkeys
18:45 - Caregiving Syndrome: Challenges and Solutions
25:00 - Tech Tips for Caregivers
30:00 - Closing Thoughts and Resources

Key Topics

• Email Spoofing: What it is and how to avoid it
• Passkeys: A new era of password-free security
• Caregiving Syndrome: Recognizing and managing burnout
• Tech tools for caregivers: Simplifying daily tasks
• The importance of asking for help and self-care

Resources

• Mango Display: mangodisplay.com
• Cleveland Clinic Study on Caregiving Syndrome
• YouTube Channel: youtube.com/caretechandtips
• Show notes and resources are here: https://bit.ly/caretechandtips-resources

email spoofing, passkeys, caregiving syndrome, tech tips, digital security, caregiver support, online safety, burnout management, Mango Display, Cleveland Clinic