Care can feel like a private storm—until someone holds the door, sends a goofy gif, or says me too. We sat down with comedian Jesús Trejo at the Carbone Cancer Center’s Fall Cancer Conference to unpack what caregiving really looks like across a lifetime: advocating for an aging parent, showing up through late-stage needs, and learning patience all over again with a six-month-old at home. The thread that connects it all is simple and hard at once—ask for help, take tiny pockets of time, and let humor do its quiet work.

Jesús shares how bringing caregiving stories to the stage turned isolation into connection. After shows, people would lean in with their own challenges, proving that honesty invites community. We explore why caregivers so often need the same two resources—time and laughter—and how to find both in practical ways: one-minute recharges, a quick walk, a supportive group chat, or a moment of gratitude that shifts the day’s center of gravity. The insights are grounded in personal experience and backed by research, making them as usable as they are human.

We also talk about perspective—the way care at the start and end of life mirrors itself, calling for patience, gentleness, and presence. Jesús explains how art and caregiving feed each other: comedy sharpens empathy, and caregiving gives comedy its heart. If you’re stepping into a caregiver role, you’ll hear a clear, compassionate message: show yourself grace, do the best you can with what you have today, and let small acts lighten the load.

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Caregiving changes you. Under the pressure of serious diagnoses and relentless decisions, we talk candidly about what keeps caregivers and clinicians going—and where the system falls short. With Dr. Noelle Loconte, a GI medical oncologist and community outreach leader at the UW Carbone Cancer Center, we unpack the skills that protect empathy, the boundaries that prevent collapse, and the uncomfortable truth so many avoid: alcohol is a carcinogen.

We explore why oncologists—already at high risk for burnout—often consume more alcohol and may hesitate to counsel patients about drinking. You’ll hear how an ASCO policy statement turned into a national wake-up call, the seven cancers firmly linked to alcohol (with more likely to come), and why tobacco’s clearer risk made it easier to communicate than alcohol’s nuanced reality. Then we shift from headlines to what actually helps: knowing your family history, understanding real drink sizes, following current guidelines, and staying on schedule with breast and colorectal screening. We also outline symptoms that should never be ignored, from difficulty swallowing to blood in the stool, and how to bring alcohol risk into an honest, judgment-free conversation with your clinician.

Caregiving needs infrastructure, not just inspiration. We make the case for flagging caregivers in health records, building a caregiver registry to track burden and outcomes, and compensating in-home care. On the ground, simple moves can change the day: add caregivers to patient portals with consent, use training apps and one-hour courses to build practical skills, and embrace humor as a powerful coping tool. Dr. Loconte shares a moving story from geriatrics that reframes the physician’s role as hands-on caregiver—proof that small acts of care carry profound weight.

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Caregiving doesn’t pause for work shifts, school pickup, or broken cars—and it definitely doesn’t pause for a two-hour drive to chemo. We sit down with Kelsey Swenson, a pediatric nurse practitioner in hematology and oncology, to talk candidly about the human side of cancer care: the relief of remission, the weight of dual roles, and the countless micro-decisions that shape a family’s survival plan.

Kelsey traces how family cancers first drew her to oncology and how stepping from clinician to daughter changed the way she listens, explains, and grieves. From pediatric leukemia to the ripple effects of genetic risk, she breaks down when screenings matter, why starting colon checks earlier can save lives, and how low-dose CT scans are shifting the landscape for eligible long-term smokers. Her insights come with a rare blend of clinical precision and lived empathy.

We also dig into the logistics most shows skip. What happens when a single parent can’t get to clinic because the gas card is for a station 40 miles away? How do rural families plan for a safe discharge when home health is scarce and the nearest hospital can’t handle oncology complications? Kelsey spotlights the unsung backbone of social work—groceries, gas, diapers, emergency rides—and the reality that funds sometimes run out. The takeaway is practical and hopeful: build a support network before crisis hits, ask for social work early, and map your local resources like your care depends on it, because it often does.

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Caregivers carry cancer care far beyond the hospital walls. We sit down with Dr. Christian Capitini, acting director of the UW Carbone Cancer Center, to explore the unseen work families do—learning medical language on the fly, managing beeping pumps at 2 a.m., navigating insurance snags, and keeping life moving for kids and adults facing treatment. Our conversation pulls back the curtain on what a comprehensive cancer center actually does across prevention, diagnosis, therapy, and survivorship—and why earning an “outstanding” federal rating changes what’s possible for patients.

We dig into a vivid example from pediatric leukemia: transforming a month-long, 24/7 infusion into a safe, portable pump program so kids can go to school and sleep in their own beds. That pivot required meticulous protocols, caregiver training, reliable equipment, and clear after-hours pathways. We also talk frankly about the barriers families face—long rural drives that turn an hour visit into a day lost, limited rideshare access, and the mental load that doesn’t fit into a standard appointment. The fix isn’t heroic individualism; it’s teams. Social workers, nurse navigators, and case managers become the scaffolding that keeps home care stable, and a simple question—“Are you okay?”—can change the course of a caregiver’s week.

On the science side, Dr. Capitini traces how immunotherapy moved from pipe dream to standard care, including a landmark neuroblastoma trial that boosted survival by 20% and helped draw him to Wisconsin. We highlight the translational engine at Carbone, where engineering, nursing, pharmacy, and the veterinary school collaborate on next-generation treatments like natural killer cell therapies tested in canine cancers to accelerate learning and inform human trials. Along the way, we touch on the healing power of well-timed humor and the importance of inviting the public to see research up close.

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Dr. Monica Patel, medical oncologist at UW Health, shares her expertise on clinical trials in cancer care and the importance of ensuring equitable access for all communities. She challenges common misconceptions while providing practical guidance for patients considering clinical trials as part of their treatment journey.

• Clinical trials test new ways to prevent, find, and treat cancer, ensuring treatments are safe and effective
• Most clinical trials are available as first-line treatments, not just as a last resort
• Participation is completely voluntary, and patients can leave a study at any time
• Provider bias, system barriers, and patient concerns all contribute to inequitable access
• Building trust requires education and engagement with communities historically excluded from research
• Research teams provide additional support through the entire clinical trial process
• Diverse representation in trials ensures new treatments work effectively for everyone
• Patients should ask about risks, benefits, and how trials compare to standard care
• Family members can provide valuable support in navigating complex trial information

If you have questions about cancer clinical trials, ask your doctors about available options, even if they don't bring them up first. For more information, visit uwhealth.org/cancertrials or clinicaltrials.gov.

What happens when the person designing cancer treatment technology suddenly becomes the patient? In this powerful episode, software engineer Michael Wilson shares his journey from coding radiotherapy machines to battling stage 3 melanoma. He explains cancer in simple terms, reveals how immunotherapy and radiation work, and talks openly about his family’s experiences with leukemia and melanoma. Michael also discusses genetic screening, rare diagnoses, and the importance of prevention and support networks like Gilda’s Club. This is an honest, hopeful, and surprisingly relatable look at life, technology, and resilience.

Dr. Joshua Lang from the University of Wisconsin-Madison Carbone Cancer Center discusses liquid biopsies, a revolutionary approach that uses simple blood samples to detect and monitor cancer, offering less invasive alternatives to traditional tissue biopsies.

• Liquid biopsies detect cancer cells or materials in blood, finding as little as one cancer cell among a billion blood cells
• These tests are especially useful for monitoring cancer after treatment, detecting genetic changes that cause resistance, and expanding access to advanced diagnostics
• Dr. Lang's research was inspired by his patients' needs, particularly understanding why cancers become resistant to treatments
• Certain cancers show promising results with liquid biopsies, including melanoma, bladder cancer, and colon cancer
• Community participation in research, with almost 1,500 patient volunteers at UW, has been crucial to advancing liquid biopsy technology
• Participating in research studies could dramatically speed up the approval of life-saving treatments – potentially saving tens of thousands of lives
• Modern research participation ensures patients maintain complete control over their samples and data
• Programs like REACH and WiscShare are expanding access to research opportunities in rural and underserved communities

If you're interested in learning more about liquid biopsies or participating in cancer research, contact the Carbone Cancer Center or visit the WiscShare website to explore opportunities to contribute to groundbreaking cancer research.

Cancer evokes mixed emotions ranging from fear to scientific curiosity, especially for those in medical fields like medical physics where practitioners help develop radiation treatment plans and support imaging technologies.

• Medical physics bridges abstract physics concepts with practical healthcare applications
• Screening differs from testing - screening is preventative while testing investigates suspected issues
• Personal experiences with family members' cancer diagnoses shape perspectives on healthcare
• Faith, asking questions, and staying informed help when coping with a loved one's cancer diagnosis
• Early detection through appropriate screenings leads to better treatment outcomes
• The UW-Carbone Cancer Center houses over 300 cancer researchers and physicians

Stay informed about cancer screenings recommended by your doctor, ask questions when you don't understand, and support those experiencing cancer in your life.