Can Your Words Change Your Reality? Rabbi Dov Singer on the Power of Soulful Communication

Do you ever feel like you’re talking into a void? Whether you are navigating a difficult conversation in your marriage or seeking a deeper sense of purpose, the secret to being heard starts with learning how to truly listen.

Rabbi Dov Singer is the head of the renowned Makor Chaim Yeshiva and a primary leader in the modern revival of emotional and religious intelligence. He is the author of the life-changing guide Prepare My Prayer, a book dedicated to helping people of all backgrounds bridge the gap between their inner worlds and their daily lives, and established the Beit Midrash L'Hitchadshut - The Study Center for Renewal, an adult spiritual outreach program, and Lifnai VLifnim, an educators’ training program.

In this episode, Justin Pines sits down with Rabbi Singer to explore a profound shift in mindset: moving from speaking about our challenges (and the Divine) to speaking to them. By applying the principles of radical listening and intentional speech, we discover that our words are not just descriptions of our reality—they are the very tools we use to build it. This conversation translates deep spiritual concepts into a practical framework for anyone looking to cultivate more presence, humility, and resilience.

Key Takeaways

• Radical Listening: Why we have two ears and only one mouth—and how to listen to the "soul" behind the words of others

• The Creative Power of Speech: Understanding how intentionality in small moments, like saying "good morning," can reshape your physical and emotional environment.

• The Art of Creating Space: Why effective leadership and parenting require us to step back (Tzimtzum) to allow those we lead to truly grow..

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