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  • Bravery in the Meantime: how to use a tough career phase for long-term success
    Nov 8 2025
    Building your brave career isn't always about leaping, insisting, disrupting. Sometimes it means staying with intention using. This moment to calm your nervous system, build your skills and inner strength, enhance your financial safety and deepen your real life, your hobbies and your interests, and the most important relationships.Building your brave career is sometimes about bravery in the meantime.Listen to this episode for concrete examples of how to use a difficult career phase to build your long-term career without stressing out, burning out, or limiting your goals. More Links:Check out my websiteJoin my mailing list for more insights, opportunities, and inspirationConnection with me on LinkedInDetailed TranscriptRight now, most women in tech are in a career phase that isn't quite what they expected. I mean, sure some of my clients and some fellow women in tech are moving abroad. Accepting promotions or lowering their stress by working fewer hours, traveling less, taking on less emotional labor. Yes, that is true.What is also true is that most of my clients, and many women in tech, are in a career phase that kind of sucks. They've been laid off with no warning, passed over for deserved, and sometimes even promised promotion, or they're stuck working with people they don't respect on products that aren't quality at companies that don't seem to care. They're watching executives and shareholders, and investors take far more than they could ever create.Because here's a brave truth: it's rough out there for a lot of women in tech, quite frankly, for a lot of everyone. And maybe that's you, and if it is, keep listening.By the end of this episode, you'll have a few ways to build the skill of bravery in your meantime. Even if you're in a job, that kind of sucks. Right now, you may be feeling ignored, stressed, lost, angry, stuck. You may feel held down by bad management and tough, real economic realities, but you're still showing up for work.Maybe you're biting back your sarcasm, your boredom, maybe even your hope. You are watching the cost of everything rise: food, clothing, housing, schooling, everything. It feels threatening. You're saving, but it never feels like enough. And you know that guy who does less and does it poorly is still earning more than you.You want to grow, be bold, create your next career phase, but you've also survived three layoffs in two years. Your friends are struggling, your mentors are struggling. You look around and it feels like just about everyone is struggling.You keep wondering what's right for me right now? Is there anywhere safe anymore? In the tech industry, we often celebrate the bravery of quitting, founding, leaping, reinventing. We talk about moving fast and breaking things, but sometimes the bravest thing, the best Next thing is choosing to stay. Choosing to stay at a job, that kind of sucks because it gives you the stability you need this month and the next.It helps you rest, build skills, activate your network, and deepen your personal relationships. Yeah, it kind of sucks and you can use this phase.You can use this phase to be your phase of bravery. In the meantime, crafting the foundation you need for that next clear leap. That might be exactly the type of bravery you need right now.Now, before I go any further, I wanna be really clear the rest of this episode is not for you. Or anyone. If you are in a truly unsafe environment, if you're being abused, bullied, harassed, or just frankly not paid, these tips are not for your situation. You need to protect yourself, and you need to seek support.What I'm about to share is for women in tech who are stressed, overworked, underpaid, and trying to stay afloat and craft a future in a very tough season.Today we're talking about how staying, how choosing bravery in the meantime can support your next career and life phase. None of what I'm about to say will help a toxic or abusive situation. Okay?If work feels draining. And it's impacting your life. This is your time to focus on bravery. In the meantime, it's about making conscious choices to build the habits and the skills you need for lowering your stress, for managing your time better. For most of you, that means working less. And setting yourself up in the future for greater income.Because you have built, expanded your sense of self, you've made yourself more valuable on the market. These are tiny habits that remind you of who you are, what you want, and why you matter.This might mean staying quieter in meetings, doing the minimum necessary for success in your role.Pay attention to what I just said : you're still going to meet success for your role. You're going to achieve. Not gonna overachieve you are not gonna extremely achieve. You're going to achieve and do the minimum necessary for achievement in your role.Maybe this means you're gonna be asking fewer questions and listening even more carefully to what is not being said.You're gonna be tracking your time more ...
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  • Shape the Future: Choose Your Boat for the River of Progress
    Sep 20 2025

    Let's get real about the challenges we face as women in tech—especially as right-wing, anti-woman movements gain ground around the world and in our industry. I share why it’s more important than ever to speak up, get involved, and “get on a boat” toward justice—whether your boat is advocating for equal healthcare, LGBTQI rights, or community building.

    You matter. Your voice matters. And your bravery—at work and in life—will shape our collective future. If you’re feeling stressed, numb, or just looking for a reminder that you’re not alone in these tough times, this episode is especially for you.

    Call to action: After you listen, choose your “boat”—find a cause, no matter how small, and get involved. And if this episode helped you, please share it with a friend who needs a little encouragement today. Together, we’re braver.

    Link to We Can Do Hard Things: The New Era: LOVE, FURY, FREEDOM

    More Links:
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    21 m
  • Every Industry Is Tech Now: Building Your Brave Career Beyond Traditional Tech
    Aug 23 2025

    I dive into how every industry is now a tech industry. We bust the myth that "tech jobs" only live inside traditional tech companies and that you are trapped in the "traditional" tech industry. I share eye-opening job growth stats across diverse sectors and offer practical steps for women in tech who want less stress, more freedom, and similar or perhaps even more pay, without sacrificing your skills or ambition.

    Curious about how you can use your tech talents in new industries with better working conditions and much closer to your interests and purpose? Listen in, take note of where you feel that spark of interest, and get ready to build your brave career.

    Call to action: If something in this episode sparks your curiosity, reach out to someone in that industry for a chat, update your materials, and start exploring your next brave move!

    Here are the global growth projections for tech-related jobs across industries in the next five years:

    • Healthcare – 20%
      Sources
      : BLS, AMIA (American Medical Informatics Association)
    • Retail – 25%
      Sources
      : Statista, BLS
    • Finance & Insurance (FinTech) – 30%
      Sources
      : Finextra, BLS
    • Manufacturing – 22%
      Sources
      : Robotics Industries Association (RIA), BLS
    • Aerospace & Defense – 15%
      Sources
      : BLS, Aerospace Industries Association
    • Telecommunications – 18%
      Sources
      : BLS, CompTIA
    • Government / Public Sector – 25% (varies by country)
      Sources: BLS, U.S. Government Accountability Office (GAO)
    • Education – 18–35% (esp. online learning)
      Sources: BLS, EDUCAUSE
    • Real Estate – 30%
      Sources
      : National Association of Realtors (NAR) Extension, Statista
    • Construction – 20%
      Sources
      : BLS, Global
    • Energy – 25%
      Sources
      : BLS, Global
    • Transportation & Logistics – 22%
      Sources
      : Statista
    • Hospitality & Tourism – 20%
      Sources
      : Statista
    • Media & Entertainment – 25%
      Sources
      : Statista
    • Pharmaceuticals – 18%
      Sources
      : Statista
    • Professional Services – 28%
      Sources
      : Statista
    • Automotive – 30%
      Sources
      : Statista
    • Legal Services – 22%
      Sources
      : Statista
    • Agriculture – 30%
      Sources
      : Statista
    • Mining – 25%
      Sources
      : Statista
    • Food & Beverage – 25%
      Sources
      : Statista

    👉 Did you feel a spark reading through that list? That spark matters. It’s your signal to explore industries that align with your interests, values, and lifestyle while still leveraging your tech expertise.


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  • 6 Years of Bravery: Intentional Choices and Big Shifts to Build the Skill of Bravery
    Aug 9 2025

    I'm popping back into your feed to celebrate a milestone: SIX YEARS of helping women in tech build the skill of bravery to stress less, work less, and then earn more.

    In this episode, I build upon the last episode (link below). Then I share how I applied the Build Your Brave framework - clarity, momentum, accountability - to make a bold move in my own career. I also talk about the opportunities that still exist for women in tech who are willing to bravely leave behind what doesn’t serve them and intentionally build the careers—and lives—they truly want.

    Want to take control of your career and build your bravery? Dive in, listen now, and reach out if you’re ready to work together or want to join my waiting list for coaching.

    Reference resources:

    • Bravely Bejeweled: Reflections on a Year of Loss & My Choice to Allow 2025
    • E62: Build Your Brave Framework 2.0
    • Join the waiting list or schedule your three hour intensive: email me at Nicole@TrickSteinbach.com

    You can be a woman in tech and enjoy your career. When you build the skill of bravery, you will stress less, work less, and then earn more. Check out the following resources designed to help you thrive in your career:

    Check out my website

    Join my mailing list for more insights, opportunities, and inspiration

    Connection with me on LinkedIn

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  • Bravely Bejeweled: Reflections on a Year of Loss & My Choice to Allow 2025
    Jan 21 2025

    2024 was a year of immense challenges, transformation, and growth. In this deeply personal episode of Build Your Brave Career, I reflect on the losses, lessons, and connections that defined my year—and how they’re shaping my approach to 2025.

    I also share two key updates for 2025:

    1. I am pausing new episodes temporarily to allow space for reflection and recalibration. I promise new episodes are coming.
    2. I will not be onboarding new coaching clients in early 2025. Join my email list to stay up-to-date.

    What’s Inside This Episode:

    • A candid reflection on the highs and lows of 2024, including lessons learned from loss and transformation.
    • My choice to focus on an intention over traditional goals, with “allow” as the guiding word for 2025.
    • Two important updates for 2025.

    Questions to Reflect On:

    • What was your most significant experience in 2024?
    • What is your intention for 2025?

    To submit your question for me to answer on an upcoming episode, send me an email at Nicole@TrickSteinbach.com

    You can be a woman in tech and enjoy your career. When you build the skill of bravery, you will stress less, work less, and then earn more. Check out the following resources designed to help you thrive in your career:

    Check out my website

    Join my mailing list for more insights, opportunities, and inspiration

    Connection with me on LinkedIn

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  • Who Are You Making It Easy For? One Question to Transform Your Career
    Dec 29 2024

    Do you ever feel stuck while pursuing your career goals? In this episode, I dive into a common lie we face as women in tech: the implicit or explicit responsibility to make your growth easy for everyone else.

    Many ambitious women in tech find themselves at a crossroads—a point where pursuing their career goals seems daunting and when met with resistance, often leads to a withdrawal from growth.

    Through a representative client story about asking the tough questions, facing discomfort head-on, and making powerful decisions for her career trajectory, you'll learn:

    • The importance of prioritizing your growth
    • The reality that transformation always impacts others
    • One approach to navigating important but uncomfortable conversations
    • Steps to stop making it easy for everyone else and start focusing on you

    To submit your question for me to answer on an upcoming episode, send me an email at Nicole@TrickSteinbach.com

    You can be a woman in tech and enjoy your career. When you build the skill of bravery, you will stress less, work less, and then earn more. Check out the following resources designed to help you thrive in your career:

    Check out my website

    Join my mailing list for more insights, opportunities, and inspiration

    Connection with me on LinkedIn

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    15 m
  • Stay On the Job Market without Burning Out as a Woman in Tech
    Dec 22 2024

    You are always on the job market. Always. Understanding and practicing is a cornerstone of building a brave career. Whether you’re thriving in your current role, facing uncertainty, or anything in between, this episode will equip you with the mindset and strategies to stay ready for any opportunity or challenge.

    Drawing from listener feedback on episode 126, we’re revisiting this topic with a clearer structure and actionable insights, including:

    • Why being "on the market" doesn’t mean a full-time job hunt.
    • How to navigate today’s dynamic tech landscape, from layoffs to AI-driven transformations.
    • Five actionable steps to stay job-ready without burnout, including mindset shifts, keeping your collateral updated, and building authentic relationships.

    Tune in to discover how small, steady actions can make a big impact on your career resilience, growth, and joy.


    Resources Mentioned:

    • Episode 126: The Mindset Shift: Understanding That You’re Always on the Job Market
    • Schedule your free consultation

    To submit your question for me to answer on an upcoming episode, send me an email at Nicole@TrickSteinbach.com

    You can be a woman in tech and enjoy your career. When you build the skill of bravery, you will stress less, work less, and then earn more. Check out the following resources designed to help you thrive in your career:

    Check out my website

    Join my mailing list for more insights, opportunities, and inspiration

    Connection with me on LinkedIn

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  • Reframing Adversity as a Woman in Tech: From Test to Confirmation
    Dec 15 2024

    What would change if you chose to see adversities not as tests, but as confirmation of your decisions, values, and goals? This episode will help you explore an option for shifting your perception so that you stress less, work less, and then earn more as a woman in tech.

    I share two specific stories and one call to action to help you challenge the idea of adversity as a "test" so that you can decide if you want to shift towards perceiving adversity as an opportunity to be confirmed.

    1. A personal story
    2. A client’s story

    Key Takeaways:

    • Shift from "test" to "confirmation" to transform how you view adversity.
    • Bravery isn't about being perfect—it's about being human and learning from the process.
    • Mindset shifts can lead to better boundaries, more energy, and greater career alignment.
    • Reframing challenges can help you stress less and create opportunities for growth.

    To submit your question for me to answer on an upcoming episode, send me an email at Nicole@TrickSteinbach.com

    You can be a woman in tech and enjoy your career. When you build the skill of bravery, you will stress less, work less, and then earn more. Check out the following resources designed to help you thrive in your career:

    Check out my website

    Join my mailing list for more insights, opportunities, and inspiration

    Connection with me on LinkedIn

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    17 m