The freedom of self-expression has become a catch-all justification for everything done online. Why should children be allowed to have social media at a young age? Because they need to express themselves! Mark Zuckerberg even used this justification of ‘self-expression’ under oath in the landmark social media addiction trial. In this episode, Kelly exposes how ‘self-expression’ has been hijacked to exploit children and steal childhood. What was once “play” is now “performance,” and what used to be “creativity” is now “content.”

This is a foundational episode that helps parents understand the larger cultural narrative at play. Also, upcoming episodes build on this idea that ‘self-expression’ is a necessary part of childhood.

Articles referenced:

Different Creative Playgrounds: Use Social Media for Creative Development
Kids Mental Health Foundation: Kids and Social Media
What kids are actually doing on social media and why that matters
How Online Communities Can Help Children
The New Era of Self-Expression: How the next generation are tackling social media, creativity, and authenticity
Social Media and Mental Health in Children and Teens
Unlock the Power of Self-Expression

Scripture referenced:

Genesis 1:27
Ephesians 2:10
Deuteronomy 6:5-7
Proverbs 22:6
Matthew 6:1
Acts 2
Proverbs 22:15

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Flowing from the idea that children need to express themselves online to form an identity, video game avatars serve as an introductory and primary portal for this. The cosmetic economy of avatar customization generates billions in revenue for game makers, while users pay and play their way into discovering their identity.

The ability to customize your appearance in the game isn’t just a fun feature. As we reveal in this episode, avatar customization can shape children’s real-world identities. But identities are not created or curated – they are given by God. This is one more way video games disciple children away from the gospel and into a self-above-all-else, unbiblical worldview.

Listen in as we inform and equip parents to know about and act against this unseen evil.

Article references:

Avatars in Gaming: How Roblox and Fortnite are redefining digital identity
The Joy and Liberation of Customizing Your Avatar
The Art of Avatar Creation
Understanding Children’s Avatar Making in Social Online Games
Young People and Gender Identity: Subverting the ‘body’ in massively multi-player online role-playing games
The Role of the Avatar in Gaming for Trans and Gender Diverse Young People
The Impact of Avatars on Self-Perception and Identity in Gaming
“I am the character, the character is me”: A thematic analysis of the user-avatar relationship in videogames
Gaming Disorder: A systematic review exploring the user-avatar relationship in videogames

Scripture References:

Genesis 1:27
2 Corinthians 5:17
Colossians 3:3
Romans 1:21
1 Corinthians 6:20
Jeremiah 17:9
Proverbs 4:23
Matthew 5:28
Mark 7:21-23
Galatians 6:8
John 17:17
John 8:32
Luke 12:15
Hebrews 13:5
1 Timothy 6:17-19
Genesis 2:15
Mark 9:42
Genesis 1:28
Psalm 139
Proverbs 3:5
Psalm 5:5
Psalm 11:5
Galatians 2:20
Romans 12:2
Acts 17:26
Ephesians 2:10
Esther 4:14
John 16:33

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Meta Ray-Ban Smart glasses have exploded in popularity. They allow people to film strangers without consent or even their awareness, which means that ordinary public interactions can now be turned into social media content.

How are Christian parents to think about this latest tech gadget? And strangers becoming content?

Articles referenced:

Pranksters and pickup artists are using Meta Ray-Ban glasses to harass strangers for content
So-called ‘manfluencers’ are filming themselves trying to pick up women. Smart glasses are their perfect tool

Scripture referenced:

Genesis 1:26-27
Genesis 9:6
James 3:9
Matthew 22:37-40
Philippians 2:3-4
Romans 2:10
Matthew 6:1-6
John 12:43
Galatians 1:10
1 Peter 1:14-16
Romans 12:1-2

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