In this special episode, Tatum shares a personal and long-awaited announcement—she has officially welcomed her third child, a beautiful baby girl, born on June 10th. After a deeply personal journey of faith, prayer, and waiting, God has answered her heart’s desire in a way only He could. With deep gratitude and joy, Tatum reflects on what it means to now be a mother of three and why she chose to keep this part of her story private until now.

Though she won’t be taking an official maternity leave, she shares what listeners can expect in the coming weeks, including a few re-aired episodes handpicked by the Holy Spirit to speak to listeners in this season. This episode, recorded before baby girl's arrival, is part of the ongoing Bible on Business series and explores a message that’s been brewing in Tatum's heart: redefining success from a kingdom perspective.

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Episode Summary:

In this powerfully honest episode of Blessed + Bossed Up, Tatum shares the joyous news of becoming a mother of three and opens up about how this life transition has deeply influenced her perspective on success. As part of the ongoing Bible on Business series, Tatum dives into the book of Ecclesiastes, unpacking its sobering wisdom and how it challenges our modern pursuit of wealth, achievement, and recognition.

This isn’t just another motivational message—this is a spiritual detox. Tatum dismantles the false doctrine of prosperity theology, exposes the hidden costs of hustle culture, and reveals how many Christian entrepreneurs are unknowingly caught in a counterfeit version of success. Through scripture, statistics, and heartfelt reflection, she encourages us to reevaluate what we’re building and why.

If you’ve ever felt anxious about not being "far enough along," tired from trying to keep up with others, or confused about what God really wants for your life and business—this episode will set you free. It’s time to reset your vision with a biblically grounded point of view.

In This Episode, You'll Learn:

• Why Tatum kept her third pregnancy private and how her faith journey shaped the experience
• How Ecclesiastes brings clarity about purpose, mortality, and God’s sovereignty
• Why the world’s definition of success leads to burnout, anxiety, and discontent
• How prosperity theology twists scripture and keeps believers bound
• The truth about biblical success, contentment, and God’s provision
• How to reset your mindset before planning your next business move or setting 2025 goals

Scripture References:

• Ecclesiastes (entire book)
• Philippians 4:19
• Malachi 3:10
• Matthew 6:24, 6:31–33
• Joshua 1:8
• 1 Timothy 6:17–19
• James 1:2–4
• Philippians 4:11–13

In this powerful installment of the Blessed + Bossed Up podcast, Tatum continues the deep dive into The Spirit-Filled Life by Dr. Charles Stanley—specifically, Chapter 4: “D-Day.” This episode unpacks what it truly means to be filled with the Holy Spirit, debunking common misconceptions about waiting, working, or striving to receive what is already promised.

Tatum shares her own personal reflections and struggles as she, like many of us, wrestles with the temptation to take control instead of surrendering to God. Drawing from Charles Stanley’s vulnerable moment of spiritual breakthrough and her own season of faith, she explores the liberating truth that the Spirit-filled life is not a formula—it’s a relationship.

You’ll learn:

• Why striving, begging, or waiting for the Holy Spirit misses the point
• The theological and biblical basis for understanding Spirit-infilling as immediate at salvation—not a second-hand experience
• The critical distinction between being filled with the Spirit vs. being filled by the Spirit (Ephesians 5:18)
• How to recognize if you’re living in survival mode instead of surrender mode—and how to switch postures
• Why dependence and surrender are the prerequisites for Spirit-led leadership, peace, and purpose
• How to study the Holy Spirit biblically: comparing Acts vs. the Epistles

This is more than a book club episode—this is a call to shift your spiritual posture from doing for God to being with God. Let this episode lead you into deeper intimacy, greater peace, and more powerful impact.

Take time to prayerfully reflect and journal your answers:

1. Have you ever found yourself begging, bargaining, or pleading with God for some spiritual change in your life?
2. Have you worked hard trying to earn something from God that’s freely given?
3. Have you assumed it's your responsibility to wait on the Holy Spirit to fill you?
4. Have you been frustrated with how to be filled with the Holy Spirit?
5. Have you come to a place of total dependence and total surrender to God?

In this powerful installment of the Bible on Business series, Tatum unpacks the biblical principle of perseverance and its critical role in building a legacy business. Drawing from Acts 14 and Acts 16, we examine the unwavering resilience of Paul—stoned, rejected, and imprisoned—yet unshaken in his mission. Tatum shares personal stories of business disappointment, failed launches, and doubt, while teaching listeners how to endure well with hope and strategy. She also bridges the Word to the marketplace by highlighting the perseverance of Howard Schultz, former CEO of Starbucks, who was rejected over 200 times before transforming the coffee industry. If you’ve ever faced discouragement in your entrepreneurial journey, this episode will re-center your focus, rekindle your faith, and equip you to keep going.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

• What biblical perseverance really means (hint: it’s not just “pushing through”)
• How to apply Acts 14 & 16 to your business strategy
• The difference between godly grit and emotional striving
• How to view business failure through a Kingdom lens
• Why legacy takes long-term faith, not short-term emotion
• How Howard Schultz used perseverance to build Starbucks after hundreds of rejections

Referenced Episode:

➡️ Pushing Through vs Persevering: https://www.blessedandbossedup.com/podcast/episode/236ef1be/perseverance-vs-pushing-through

This week on Blessed + Bossed Up, we’re doing something a little different—and very needed.

We’re spotlighting an incredible episode from the Marriage, Motherhood & PTSD podcast, hosted by Coach Leah Huggins. Originally created for military wives navigating the effects of PTSD in marriage, this show now speaks to every woman carrying the weight of life, relationships, motherhood, and purpose—especially those doing it all while feeling like they’re running on empty.

In this featured episode, Beating Burnout: Reclaiming Peace When Running On Fumes, Coach Leah unpacks what burnout really looks like and how to begin healing from it—mentally, emotionally, and spiritually. If you’ve been stretched too thin, silently struggling, or just trying to keep it all together, this episode offers biblical truth, personal wisdom, and practical tools to help you reset.

You’ll learn:

• The hidden signs of burnout (and why it’s not always obvious)
• How PTSD, trauma, and chronic stress affect your energy and peace
• Biblical examples of emotional fatigue—like Elijah—and how God responds
• Tools for nervous system regulation, rest, and soul-care
• How to start setting boundaries that honor both God and yourself
• An introduction to the Stress Less Workbook, a life budgeting tool for your peace

🎧 Tune in now and discover why Marriage, Motherhood & PTSD is becoming a go-to podcast for Christian women navigating hard seasons without losing themselves in the process.

🔗 New episodes of Marriage, Motherhood & PTSD are available everywhere you get your podcasts! https://redcircle.com/shows/f1832fdb-4023-4aa4-bf26-b178c2113bb3

In this episode of Blessed + Bossed Up, Tatum dives deep into Acts 15:1–21 to unpack a practical and biblical framework for resolving conflict in business. She walks through the example of the Jerusalem Council and explains how the apostles resolved a major disagreement without compromising truth or unity. Tatum also shares insights from psychological research on conflict avoidance—especially in the digital age—and outlines how modern entrepreneurs can adopt a Christ-centered approach to managing disputes. The episode concludes with a memorable acronym, PEACE, to guide believers through conflict with wisdom, empathy, and clarity.

Key Points Covered:

A verse-by-verse breakdown of Acts 15:1–21 highlighting how conflict was handled in the early church.

The importance of mastering soft skills like conflict resolution for business success and Christian witness.

Data-backed insights on how most people avoid conflict and how that avoidance leads to stress, anxiety, and fractured relationships.

The impact of digital communication on our ability to address issues directly and with empathy.

Tatum’s personal experiences with conflict in business and the lessons she’s learned over the years.

The biblical model of addressing disagreements with humility, truth, community, and clear communication.

Introduction of the PEACE method, a five-step framework based on Acts 15.

The PEACE Method for Conflict Resolution:

P – Pause and Pray: Take a moment before responding. Seek the Holy Spirit’s guidance.

E – Examine the Root Issue: Go beyond surface-level problems to uncover the true cause of the conflict.

A – Approach with Empathy and Accountability: Listen more than you speak. Own your role and respond with grace and truth.

C – Collaborate on a Christ-Centered Solution: Aim for reconciliation, not just resolution. Propose outcomes that honor God and preserve unity.

E – Establish Next Steps: Clarify decisions and expectations. Put agreements in writing to avoid future confusion.

Save the PEACE acronym as a reminder the next time conflict arises in your business or ministry. Use it to remain rooted in biblical truth while navigating difficult conversations.

In this week’s episode of Blessed and Bossed Up, we continue our journey through The Spirit-Filled Life by Charles Stanley, focusing on Chapter 3: The Indwelling Spirit. Tatum walks through Stanley’s personal experience with imposter syndrome and how it led him to a deeper understanding of the Holy Spirit’s presence and power in his life.

This chapter highlights the difference between simply believing in the Holy Spirit and actively living a Spirit-filled life. Tatum discusses how many believers, though saved and sincere, may not be experiencing the fullness of the Holy Spirit because He is not fully activated in their daily lives. Stanley’s transparency about his own struggle brings clarity and hope for those who want to experience more of God but aren’t sure how.

Through practical application and biblical insight, this episode challenges listeners to consider their own level of intimacy with the Holy Spirit. It’s not just about having Him present, but about allowing Him to fully take residence and lead. The chapter also touches on being sealed by the Spirit and the confidence we can have in knowing that God has taken up permanent residence within us.

Reflection Prompt:

Take a moment to meditate on these two truths:

1. The Holy Spirit is God.
2. The Holy Spirit lives in me.

What do these truths mean for your daily life? How should they affect your thoughts, decisions, character, relationships, and sense of purpose?

1 Corinthians 6:19

1 Corinthians 13:12

Genesis 1:1–3

Colossians 1:13–16

Genesis 1:26

Genesis 1:27

Acts 5:1–4

Hebrews 9:14

John 20:22

Acts 1:8

1 John 3:24

1 Thessalonians 4:8

1 Peter 1:11

Galatians 4:6

1 Corinthians 3:16–17

Romans 8:9

Romans 8:11

2 Timothy 1:14

Jeremiah 31:31–34

Mark 15:38

Ephesians 1:13–14

Matthew 27:66

Revelation 20:3

Revelation 7:4–8

Revelation 14:1–5

Ephesians 4:30

Book Featured

The Spirit-Filled Life: Discover the Joy of Surrendering to the Holy Spirit by Charles Stanley https://a.co/d/ceKoWk3

Share this episode with a friend who is seeking more of God and trying to step into the calling on their life with confidence and clarity.

In this powerful and deeply practical conclusion to the Spirit-Led Business Decisions series, Tatum wraps up what organically grew into a four-part journey into how Christian entrepreneurs can walk with God daily in their business—not just in theory, but in practice. In this final installment, she shifts from theological insight to real-world application, answering the question: "How do I make this a lifestyle and not just lip service?"

Tatum dives into Galatians 5:25 and unpacks what it truly means to "keep in step with the Spirit." She contrasts rhythm vs. routine, exploring why many believers struggle to remain connected to God in their daily grind, and how reclaiming spiritual rhythm—rooted in abiding, alignment, obedient action, and reflection—can transform not just your business, but your entire life.

This episode is for the believer who's tired of burnout, hungry for clarity, and ready to build what God saw before He formed them. If you're ready to stop sprinkling Jesus onto your plans and start submitting to His, this conversation is your blueprint.

• The difference between routine and rhythm—and why rhythm is more biblical and fruitful.
• The true meaning of Galatians 5:25 and its call to live Spirit-led daily.
• Psychological and spiritual reasons we struggle to abide with God consistently.
• How to build your business from a place of intimacy, not ambition.
• A practical four-part system: Abide, Align, Act, Assess—for keeping in sync with God in every business season.

• Galatians 5:25 – “Since we live by the Spirit, let us keep in step with the Spirit.”
• John 15:5 – “Apart from Me, you can do nothing.”
• Luke 10:38–42 – Martha vs. Mary on routine vs. rhythm.
• Exodus 16 – God’s provision of manna and the daily rhythm of trust.
• Mark 1:35, John 5:19 – Jesus’ example of ministry led by presence, not pressure.

• Routines may be efficient, but rhythms anchor you to presence.
• Strategy should be Spirit-led—not stress-driven.
• Aligning with God’s timing produces peace, flexibility, and more fruit.
• Obedience matters more than optics or output.

• How to Make Spirit-Led Business Decisions – Part 1: https://www.blessedandbossedup.com/podcast/episode/3c5c4d42/how-to-make-spirit-led-business-decisions-pt-1
• Worship, Fasting, and Divine Strategy – Part 2: https://www.blessedandbossedup.com/podcast/episode/1edd3a2b/how-to-make-spirit-led-business-decisions-pt-2
• Mobility + Flexibility in Business – Part 3: https://www.blessedandbossedup.com/podcast/episode/21747377/how-to-make-spirit-led-business-decisions-pt-3
• How to Have a Business Meeting with God: https://www.blessedandbossedup.com/podcast/episode/515b3ca9/196-how-to-have-a-business-meeting-with-god
• Digital Detox Episode: https://www.blessedandbossedup.com/podcast/episode/50e68525/251-take-a-digital-break-sis

In this powerful and transparent episode, we continue our journey through the book The Spirit-Filled Life by Dr. Charles Stanley, focusing on Chapter 2: “My First Encounter.” Tatum dives into Dr. Stanley’s personal reflections, her own early confusion around the Holy Spirit, and the deeply transformative truths revealed through Scripture about who the Holy Spirit really is.

From church traditions and misinformation to real encounters with the Spirit of God, this episode breaks down misconceptions and invites you into a deeper awareness and relationship with the Holy Spirit—not as an “it,” but as the living, active, thinking, and feeling person He is.

If you've ever felt confused, intimidated, or even unsure about who the Holy Spirit is and how He operates in your life, this episode will meet you with truth, grace, and clarity. You’ll walk away equipped to recognize the fingerprints of the Spirit in your day-to-day life and encouraged to surrender to the divine guidance available to you.

• The biblical identity of the Holy Spirit as a person—not a force or an “it”
• Why speaking in tongues is not the only evidence of being Spirit-filled
• The key tasks of the Holy Spirit (with Scripture references)
• How to discern between conviction and condemnation
• Personal stories of early confusion and real encounters with the Holy Spirit
• Practical steps to develop greater awareness and relationship with the Holy Spirit

• John 16:8–11 – Conviction
• John 16:12–15 – Illumination and Teaching
• Romans 8:14 – Guidance
• Romans 8:16 – Assurance
• Romans 8:26 – Intercession
• Acts 20:22–23 – Direction and Warnings
• 1 Corinthians 2:11–12, 1 Corinthians 12:11 – Knowledge and Will of the Spirit
• Ephesians 4:30, Romans 15:30 – Emotion of the Spirit

• Reflect on the tasks of the Holy Spirit mentioned in the episode and look for them in your daily life.
• Ask yourself: Have I been guilty of ignoring the Holy Spirit?
• Begin to intentionally acknowledge Him as a person and seek to develop a daily awareness of His work in your life.

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