In this episode of Blessed + Bossed Up, we continue our book club discussion of The Ruthless Elimination of Hurry by John Mark Comer, shifting from diagnosing the problem of hurry to uncovering the solution.

If you’ve ever felt overwhelmed, burnt out, or stuck in a cycle of doing too much, this episode is your invitation to something deeper: the lifestyle of Jesus.

We explore what it truly means to follow Jesus—not just in belief, but in daily practice—and how embracing an apprenticeship mindset can transform your pace, your peace, and your purpose.

We often think the solution to overwhelm is more hours in the day. But more time doesn’t fix a misaligned life—it just gives us more space to stay busy. True freedom comes from reordering our lives around God, not productivity.

To follow Jesus is to apprentice under Him:

• Be with Jesus
• Become like Jesus
• Do what He would do

This perspective shifts your posture from control to humility, from striving to learning.

If you’re experiencing:

• Anxiety
• Burnout
• Constant stress
• Disconnection from God

…it’s not random. Your current systems and rhythms are producing those results.

Many of us want:

• His peace
• His clarity
• His joy

…but we’re not willing to live how He lived.

Following Jesus is not compartmentalized—it’s a full-life transformation, not just Sunday behavior or spiritual moments.

Burnout isn’t just exhaustion—it’s a signal.

It often means you’ve made your dwelling place somewhere God never intended.

The invitation? Come back home.

A powerful personal story highlights how easy it is to pray what we want instead of surrendering to God’s will.

When you approach God as an apprentice—not the one in charge—you:

• Release control
• Stay open to correction
• Avoid unnecessary frustration and confusion

Slowing down enough to:

• Notice your reactions
• Evaluate your routines
• Check your alignment

…is key to transformation.

Self-awareness allows you to course correct in real time and grow in spiritual maturity.

Life is hard. That’s not changing.

But instead of removing the weight, Jesus teaches us how to carry it differently:

• With Him
• At His pace
• With His peace

This week, begin living like an apprentice:

• Pause throughout your day and ask: “What would Jesus do?”
• Set reminders to check in with your thoughts, reactions, and stress levels
• Pay attention to moments where you feel rushed, anxious, or out of alignment
• Surrender areas where you’ve been forcing your will

Matthew 11:28–30

“Come to me, all who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest…”

If you want the life of Jesus, you have to adopt the lifestyle of Jesus.

This isn’t about doing more—it’s about living differently.

• The Ruthless Elimination of Hurry by John Mark Comer

In this episode of Blessed + Bossed Up, we continue our book club series on The Ruthless Elimination of Hurry by John Mark Comer, stepping into Part 2: The Solution.

If you’ve been feeling overwhelmed, stretched thin, or like there aren’t enough hours in the day, this conversation will challenge the way you think about productivity, ambition, and success.

Tatum shares a candid life update—navigating motherhood, law school, entrepreneurship, and a recent season of burnout—and how God is shifting her perspective on pace, priorities, and what success really means in this season.

This episode centers on a powerful truth: the solution to an overbusy life is not more time, but a slower, more intentional life rooted in what actually matters.

• Why more time will not fix your overwhelm
• How to simplify your business model without sacrificing success
• The difference between active income and asset-based wealth
• Why you do not have to follow grind culture to build a successful business
• How embracing your limitations can bring peace and clarity
• What it means to define success as pleasing God, not producing outcomes
• How surrendering control leads to true freedom

• You do not have to be rushed to be rich or successful
• Every yes requires a thousand no’s—choose wisely
• Your capacity is limited, and that is by design
• God is not asking you to do everything, only what He assigned to you
• True success is obedience to God, not money, influence, or recognition

This episode explores the tension between potential and limitation. While we are made in the image of God and filled with purpose, we are still human and finite.

Learning to accept both your potential and your limitations is essential to building a life and business that is sustainable, peaceful, and aligned with God’s will.

“You don’t have to be rushed to be rich. You don’t have to be rushed to be successful.”

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In this episode of Blessed + Bossed Up, Tatum takes time to rest and recover while revisiting one of the most impactful teachings she’s shared: the God Math Formula.

If you’ve been feeling overwhelmed, stretched thin, or stuck in survival mode, this episode invites you to take a different approach. Instead of striving, multitasking, and trying to do everything, Tatum breaks down a faith-based framework that brings clarity, peace, and alignment.

This episode is not about doing more. It is about doing what matters most and trusting God to handle the rest.

• Why survival mode requires deeper reflection, not quick fixes
• The difference between worldly peace and God’s peace
• How hustle culture and internalized stress are affecting women
• Why slowing down can feel uncomfortable and what God may be refining in that process
• The truth about multitasking versus multiplication

Consecration + Concentration = Multiplication

Setting your life apart for God through your daily decisions, habits, and priorities.

Key Scriptures:

Romans 12:1–2

1 Peter 1:15–16

Maintaining focused, intentional attention on God’s will by eliminating distractions and staying aligned.

Key Scripture:

Matthew 4:1–11

God expands what you offer Him beyond your natural capacity.

Key Insight:

Multitasking is not multiplication. Trying to do everything is stepping into a role that belongs to God.

• Mary, mother of Jesus: Her obedience positioned her to carry out God’s plan for salvation
• The Shunammite woman: Her generosity led to supernatural provision
• The disciples: Their obedience with limited resources led to abundance
• The widow of Zarephath: Her faith in scarcity resulted in overflow

Tatum outlines a realistic, faith-centered daily rhythm that includes:

• Starting the day with prayer, Scripture, and stillness
• Being intentional with family and relationships
• Working with focus and minimizing distractions
• Practicing gratitude throughout the day
• Prioritizing rest and restoration in the evening

Key takeaway:

Harmony is not about having more time. It is about being intentional with the time you already have.

• Alignment is more important than activity
• Peace is not the absence of chaos but the presence of God
• Discipline is the key to sustainable transformation
• God multiplies what you surrender and steward well

In this inspiring episode of Blessed and Bossed Up, Christian entrepreneur Tatum Temia answers listener questions about aligning ambition with God’s will, managing work-life harmony, and creating faith-based communities for women. She also shares a powerful testimony of her grandmother’s miraculous healing from stage four cancer, reminding listeners that God is faithful and sees every part of our lives.

Whether you are a busy mom, entrepreneur, or professional, this episode is packed with practical guidance, spiritual encouragement, and real-life strategies to live a God-centered, purpose-driven life.

Tatum shares the story of her grandmother. Through faith, prayer, and God’s guidance, she is now in remission. This testimony highlights:

• The power of trusting God in difficult seasons
• How prayer and faith can bring peace and restoration
• Why God’s timing is perfect and how He works behind the scenes

Tatum answers a listener’s question about determining if their ambition is God-aligned. Key takeaways include:

• Pause and recalibrate: Avoid operating in hurry and burnout
• Examine the root of ambition: Is it fueled by brokenness or a spirit of excellence?
• Apply the God Math Formula:
• Consecration: Abide in God daily
• Concentration: Focus on what God assigns
• Multiplication: Experience supernatural results beyond your own efforts

Tatum addresses the challenges of balancing career, business, ministry, and family life. She advises:

• Take a hard stop to evaluate priorities and health
• Use your job as an investor: Save for your business or ministry
• Schedule time for spiritual growth: waking early, praying throughout the day
• Transition from surviving to savoring every moment with family and God

For women seeking support while navigating fertility journeys, Tatum provides tips on:

• Researching existing communities to understand needs and pain points
• Emphasizing peace, trust, and patience over anxiety
• Combining faith with practical steps like health, vitamins, or IVF guidance
• Using social media strategically to connect with your audience and grow community

1. Take a recalibration pause to evaluate the alignment of your ambition and priorities.
2. Apply the God Math Formula in daily life to multiply your efforts spiritually and practically.
3. Carve out dedicated time for prayer, ministry, or your business while keeping your career stable.
4. Build or join a faith-based community that provides spiritual encouragement and practical resources.
5. Savor your life: prioritize health, family, and God over constant productivity and achievement.

• Previous episode: God Math Formula: https://www.blessedandbossedup.com/podcast/episode/1f420cff/god-math-the-spiritual-formula-every-busy-woman-needs

This week on Blessed and Bossed Up, Tatum Temia dives deep into listener questions about balancing personal desires with God’s timing and navigating the complexities of Christian entrepreneurship. As we close out the first quarter of the year, this episode is a reminder to check in with your goals, your heart, and your faith.

Tatum covers:

• Holding space for longings like marriage and motherhood without letting them consume your focus, even when God is calling you to pursue other seasons of life.
• Healthy ways to process disappointment and desire without shutting down emotionally or disassociating.
• The importance of enjoying your current season while preparing for future roles in life and leadership.
• Discerning action versus waiting in business: how to know when to move forward and when to sit and seek guidance from the Lord.
• The dwelling and abiding lifestyle—making God your constant dwelling place to cultivate peace, clarity, and confidence in your decisions.
• Real talk on the mental and spiritual challenges of Christian entrepreneurship and how to navigate the pressure, self-doubt, and decision paralysis with faith and wisdom.

Whether you’re navigating personal desires, business growth, or both, this episode provides practical guidance and encouragement to live fully surrendered to God while pursuing your destiny.

💌 Have a question for Tatum? Email her at Tatum@TatumTemia.com and you might hear it answered on a future episode!

In this episode of Blessed + Bossed Up, Tatum kicks off the next book club series: The Ruthless Elimination of Hurry by John Mark Comer. https://amzn.to/4c9jPAK

This national bestseller, with over one million copies sold, presents a compelling spiritual and emotional case against hurry and challenges the culture of busyness that defines modern life.

For ambitious women balancing business, motherhood, marriage, leadership, and personal growth, this conversation is both timely and necessary.

Although originally planning to wait until after midterms, Tatum began rereading this book sooner because she recognized subtle signs of internal hurry resurfacing in her own life. This episode is not just a book discussion—it is a personal reset and an invitation for listeners to do the same.

In this episode, she explores:

• Why high-achieving women are especially vulnerable to chronic overload
• What current research reveals about women, stress, burnout, and time poverty
• How busyness impacts cortisol levels, sleep, hormonal balance, and long-term health
• The invisible mental load many women carry daily
• The tension between ambition and contentment
• Why hurry is incompatible with love, joy, and peace
• The foundational question raised in the book: Who am I becoming?

Drawing from both the book and her own experience in therapy, Tatum also shares practical tools that help interrupt internal hurry, including:

• Creating intentional transition time between responsibilities
• Practicing single-tasking instead of multitasking
• Scheduling real lunch breaks without scrolling
• Grounding exercises to regulate the nervous system
• Pausing in moments of rush to return to presence

One of the central themes discussed in this episode is the idea that hurry is not merely a productivity issue—it is a spiritual formation issue.

As the book argues, love, joy, and peace are core characteristics of apprenticeship to Jesus. Yet all three are incompatible with a life lived in constant speed. Presence is required for love. Stillness is required for joy. Margin is required for peace.

Tatum challenges listeners to reflect deeply:

• Who are they becoming if nothing changes?
• Has hurry negatively impacted their marriage, parenting, friendships, or worship?
• Are they rushing toward a version of success they may not even like?
• Where has busyness quietly replaced intimacy with God?

This episode also addresses a sobering reality: many Christians are not in danger of renouncing their faith—but of settling for a distracted, shallow version of it.

The invitation is clear: eliminate hurry before it eliminates depth.

Listeners are encouraged to grab a copy of The Ruthless Elimination of Hurry and follow along as the book club continues in the next episode.

Because building a successful life should never come at the cost of the soul.

If this episode resonates, share it with another ambitious woman who needs permission—and accountability—to slow down.

Tune in next week as the discussion continues.

In this episode of Blessed + Bossed Up, we’re having a sober, faith-centered conversation about artificial intelligence—what it is, how it already shows up in daily life, and how Christian entrepreneurs should engage with it wisely.

AI is software trained on data to predict, recommend, recognize, or generate without being told every step. It’s embedded in:

• Google search suggestions
• Autocorrect and text prediction
• YouTube/Netflix/Spotify recommendations
• Banking fraud alerts
• Email spam filters and inbox sorting
• Face ID, photo tagging, voice-to-text

AI isn’t just ChatGPT—and it’s here to stay.

Many people want AI’s benefits but feel cautious about trust, jobs, privacy, and misinformation. Others either avoid it completely or rely on it too heavily.

Use AI for labor, not revelation.

Don’t use AI to interpret scripture, replace prayer, or seek direction for what God told you to build. Use it for support work—drafting, organizing, brainstorming, or saving time—without replacing dependence on the Holy Spirit. AI can easily become an idol because it’s designed to learn you and feed you what you want.

As AI content becomes overly polished, the market is shifting toward authentic, human-led content. People want real stories, real connection, and less perfection—meaning you don’t need “TV-level” production to show up and stand out.

• Draft captions, emails, descriptions, SEO
• Repurpose audio/video into clips
• Create basic graphics aligned to a brand guide
• Automate simple customer support/FAQs
• Streamline admin and back-office tasks

Keep the human connection: respond, engage, and make sure your voice stays present.

Now is a great time to launch what God called you to—without perfection—while using AI as a tool with wisdom, restraint, and spiritual discernment.