Beyond the Feels: Understanding Real Love in a Confused World

Does love just mean good vibes and butterflies—or is there something deeper?

In this episode of The Thoughtful Christian Podcast, Tonya Lee cuts through the confusion surrounding love in a culture obsessed with feelings and filters. From philia to eros, storge to agape, she breaks down the four kinds of love—and how mixing them up can leave us empty, burned out, and wondering if love is even worth the risk.

Tonya shares her own story of heartbreak, healing, and what finally grounded her in real, lasting love—the kind that isn’t earned or performative, but rooted in Christ. Whether you’re single, married, ghosted, or just tired of swiping, this conversation will remind you: you’re not too broken for love—and God’s love isn’t just a theory. It’s personal.

Listen now and then explore more at tonyaelee.com